oh wow i have a problem similar to that.. you should just tell him how you feel no matter if you feel like your gonna destroy ur friendship ..because if you dont tell him now and just force yourself tolike him youll end up hurting him even more and then youll just feel like crap for doing that...trust me...
2006-06-20 10:31:50
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answered by Adi 1
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well best friend as boyfriends sometimes works out but some times it could be a very bad idea. but if you both love each other then go for it. having a best Friend for a boyfriend is great because you know each other better then anyone else. but if you don't want him as a boyfriend you have to tell him before you loose him for good.
2006-06-20 10:01:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you in love with him or did you say yes you would date cuz you didn't want to hurt his feelings? If that's the case you shouldn't of said yes you are going to hurt him more. If you don't have feelings for him in that way I would just tell him that it's better if you guys are friends. You value his friendship way too much to ruin it with feelings. Hope this helps
2006-06-20 09:59:40
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answered by sexzbich 3
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the first thing is even though its wierd which i get do u love him cause if u dont u need to tell him so he dosent get the wrong impression second if u really think ur better friends u might want to tell him that so u dont ruin the friendship third dont do anything ur no ready to do just because he is and if it dosent work out try to still be his friend and show that u care
2006-06-20 09:55:36
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answered by Anonymous
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you dont want to go out with him?
if theres anything wrong with your relationship, break up with him immidiately.
but if you just feel weird, then ask him if he feels the same way.
explain to him that youre so glad you guys are friends, but its just kinda weird to suddenly change from friends to bf/gf. tell him (if its true) you really love him its just not working like that.
dont just break up with him with no reason.
you will never forgive yourself and you might never be friends again. he deserves an expliantion.
-maddy
2006-06-20 09:54:30
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answered by Maddy 1
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If you dont not have the same feelings for him; then I suggest you break itoff now and SAVE your friendship. I dated my best friend in the entire world for the past 2 years.. and when we broke up.. I not only lost the love ofmy life, but I lost my best friend. It sucks, but it will happen.
2006-06-20 09:52:59
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answered by moomoo 3
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Do you love him back? If you dont like him just tell him you had more fun when yall were best friends... and your not ready for a relationship yet!
2006-06-20 09:53:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you in love with him? if so, I would say so go for it, because it is awesome for your lover to be your best friend. you will always be able to tell him any thing , yall will always share that bond of friendship. hope everything works out good luck
2006-06-20 11:02:35
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answered by lisa d 2
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you cannot choose who to love, if you love him, but just as a friend, you better get out!!! He can love you a lot, but that's not enough for the both of you and he deserves to be with somebody that loves him (the way he wants and needs to be loved)...
2006-06-20 09:56:33
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answered by Gianni 1
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well if you do not feel comfortable with the whole situation then forget it i dont think it will work because you do not look at him that way only as your best friend or you wouldnt be posting this comment about your relationship, good luck with whateva you do
2006-06-20 09:54:18
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answered by jayrok027 2
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