It can be any type of relationship; brother, sister , mother, friend. Please give me a whole story.
Mine was letting go of a man that I truly thought was my soul mate. He could never tell me he loved me because he had a problem. He wouldn't stop smoking weed and when he couldn't get high he took it out on everyone. Leaving, knowing that he had a physical addiction and might not be ok, was one of the hardest things I have ever done. I love life and live it to the fullest but I really feel like he should be sitting here with me. I am moving on and see other people. I allow myself to become fully envolved but when I go to bed and wake up, I still feel like he should be lying next to me. He was my lover, my best friend and confidant but he has a serious problem and I couldn't help him with it.
2006-06-20 09:49:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My hardest moment was realizing I needed to leave my now ex in jail instead of trying to save him yet again when he beat me up again and was arrested. Admitting that I was a battered wife was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do in my life. It sent me on a roller coaster ride of emothions to know that I never had to go through with it again, but that I had to stand up against him in order for it to stay that way. In the good times where he was not angry he was my lover, best friend, and confidant, too. He also had a serious problem and I couldn't fix it.
I, too, am moving on, but it has been a very long hard road to do so. I get so very lonely without him to talk to - we were together for 13 years.
The very worst problem is that I went to see him for the first time in almost a year and since he is off drugs (I didn't know he was on them) he is back to the person he used to be that I fell in love with. It makes my heart ache to know what we all lost because of that.
You did the right thing in leaving, even though I know it is one of the hardest things in the world to do.
2006-06-20 10:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by wyldfyre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication probably is the hardest thing for any of us to do.
2006-06-20 09:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust because I have none.
2006-06-20 09:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋