i want to give more attn to my wife but all the things to say,or to do
seems as if it has been abused EXAMPLE a guy says i love you
but its only for sex. i want to give more than just what everone else
uses . she is very beautiful and i think she may be getting tired of me, sometimes i wish there was a girl friend that i could get help from. what can i do to make her more interested in me sexualy?
please help women comments preferred
2006-06-20 09:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
CATER 2 EVERY INCH OF HER BODY!!!!!!CREATE FIREY PASSION IN WAYS SHE WOULDN'T EXPECT OF YOU
2006-06-20 09:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the park and push her on the swings...have a picnic with her favorite food. take her to a chick flick, send her flowers for no reason, take her out for drinks and after a few, ask her some fantasy type questions, ever try role playing in the bedroom? its interesting and can get very exciting, ask her to help you shop for some new clothes, let her dress you in something she thinks is hot and then go out in it. maybe a new haircut for you, different calone, do yall like the same kind of music? go to a concert. take her somewhere and make her feel like you are showing her off, like she is the prettiest one in the crowd. open car doors for her unexpectedly. Alot of women say they dont like porn, and if that offends you Im sorry, let her pick something out. go to an adult store and look around and have her choose someing for you. And have her choose something for her!!! And most of all dont get mad at her if she seems to be shy or not interested....for me, I was shy and in denial until I met a very patient and encouraging guy. Give her a back/butt massage.
I hope some of these ideas help, these are just things my husband does. And we are very happy and have a great sex life. Want more info, email me. good luck.
2006-06-20 10:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous...do something she wouldn't normally expect you to do for her. Treat her to a day at the spa or better yet make a spa in your own home, you be the one to give her a massage or something. Take her on an exotic vacation or something....... show her...no reinforce the reasons why she fell in love with you in the first place. Sometimes people lose sight of things like that, it be the little less things that count sometimes.
2006-06-20 09:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay interested in her. Don't just try to have sex with her, do things with her that she loves to do and show interest in her as a person and the sexual attraction will come naturally. I know i like for my husband to plan dates. I get so tired of hearing what do you want to do, i don't know what do you want. Pay attention to what she likes and plan a date around that. Just because you are married does not mean you can't still be dating.
2006-06-20 09:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HERES SOMETHING GOOD. IT MIGHT SOUND LIKE A LOT OF WORK OR EVEN GAY BUT TRUST ME IT WORKS SOMEONE DID IT FOR ME.
MAKE HER DINNER, SOMETHING SIMPLE, HAVE ROSE PEDALS ALL OVER THE BED WITH TWO STEMED ROSES ON THE PILLOW READY TO RUB HER WITH.
AT DINNER HAVE A BOTTLE OF CHAMPAGNE AND PLAY SOME MUSIC YOU BOTH ENJOY.
ADVICE: AFTER YOU SPREAD THE ROSE PEDALS ON THE BED CLOSE THE DOOR, THE ROOM WILL SMELL SO AWESOME AND SHE WILL FALL RIGHT INTO YOUR ARMS TRUST ME. ALSO BLIND HER BEFORE TAKING HER INTO THE ROOM AND HAVE TONS OF SCENTED ORANGE CANDLES...
2006-06-20 09:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by lovebug1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe it would be romantic to go to the spa with my man and we both just enjoy being pampered looking into each others eyes!!!
2006-06-20 09:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by yousexythangyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋