i use to have a best friend who i would hang out all the time with she got married and we still hung out but in january her husband hit her and i defened her and me and her husband stoped talking we still hung out her and i but for the last 2 months she's been agonring me and her family is acting weird around me what would you do un this situtaion please let me know i really miss my friend
2006-06-20 09:47:50 · 13 answers · asked by chicana_gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you need to think about the position you have put her in she obviously wants to try and make a go of it with this ***hole and theres nothing you can do about that, maybe one day she'll wake up, but untill then be supportive of her even if it means you have to make nice with the slimy s**t, you know shes worth more and when she finally sees that she'll need her friend.give her a while to cool off and start over, your friendship is worth it.
2006-06-20 10:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Angelcake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately when you come between a couple best friend or not... they feel you are interferring..
then your friend tells your husband what you said... then he doesn't want you around her and blames you for their problems.
Your friend should not be with a man who hits her and when she comes to her senses she will come back to you and you can support her and help her heal.
2006-06-20 16:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to her it happen to me i had a best friend that i always hung around but when she got married she change alot but we talk cause i was feeling left out she told me that since she is married she cant always hang out with me but i still go places together
2006-06-20 17:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by cnalittlebit2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to an abusive man for ten years. He cut me off from seeing any of my family or friends. That could be her situation. Just be her friend and offer her advice, but don't be pushy about it.
2006-06-20 16:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by sweetestthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was truly your friend she wouldn't be doing this to you. Just talk to her and see what the problem is. If she doesn't want to talk it out or she acts like a bytch towards you than she obvioulsy ins't your true friend. Good luck
2006-06-20 16:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her husband is probally telling her to stay away from you or else....Try writing a letter to your friend or maybe communicating with her husband.Tell him you apologize for becoming involved in their marital problems,but you care for your friend and want the best for her.
2006-06-20 16:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been telling her to leave her abusive husband? If you have she might be resenting it. To be a friend you have to be there for your friend but not tell them what to do, Obviously her husband does not like you, but he might be telling her that you just want to break them up, and she might be believing it and resenting you.
Talk to her, tell her you don't wish to interfere in her marriage anymore and that if she needs a friend you will always be there for her. See what happens.
2006-06-20 16:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry to say but sometimes friends grow apart. You just have to go and make new friends. Not necessarily to replace the old one but to keep your life moving.
2006-06-20 16:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by sammirae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is sit and talk and find out where you and her stand. if you are still friends she will agree to this . a friendship is very precious hope you can work it out.
2006-06-20 16:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by hutmamma2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do in this situation is to sit down and converse with her about what is going on
2006-06-20 16:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by nate diggitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋