I rescheduled 3 days of my life to watch her kids and she didn't even bother to show up. No explanation, nothing. She keeps making plans and not showing up. This is the 2nd time she's done this to me. I'm ready to tear her up. How should I deal with her?
2006-06-20 09:41:55 · 19 answers · asked by tankgirl190 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know how you feel .I can't stand when someone does that to me. Some people need to have some common courtesy and respect for other people. It only take a few seconds to pick up the phone and call someone. I wouldn't agree to sit for her any more.
2006-06-20 10:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by lisa d 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell her nicely that you rescheduled three days just to baby sit for her and she didn't even have the common courtesy to call you.That she should find someone else to ask because your not going out of your way for her again.Don't let her cry on your shoulder.
2006-06-20 09:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply be nice about it, but firm. tell her that you had requested the days off from your employeer and you were ready to watch the kidos and she didn't even try and reach you to tell you otherwise. I would be a lil mad myself if i took those days off and she didn't show. i would ask her nicely if you could find someone else to watch the kids. :D good luck.
2006-06-20 09:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by laurieprentice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her the truth. You were nice enough to watch her kids and she is taking advantage of you. Be honest with her and let her know you don't mind helping her out - but she should be considerate of your life/schedule.
2006-06-20 09:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think welcoming them to the neighborhood is fine with the cookies and welcome gifts, but tuck your baby sitting card in with the gifts and let them have a choice of whether or not they want you to baby sit for them. plus they don't know you and they might want to get to know you better before letting you babysit for them.
2016-03-26 23:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat her children. Are their names Hansel and Gretel, by chance?
2006-06-20 09:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a bill, just like the doctor would send you a bill, if you scheduled an appointment and didn't show up
2006-06-20 09:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time she asks you to babysit politely decline
2006-06-20 09:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she asks tell her NO! Don't let people walk all over you! You don't deserve it!
2006-06-20 09:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a call and explain to her that you have other things to do and that she is not be responsible, next time, tell her you are busy.
2006-06-20 09:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋