2006-06-20 09:19:37 · 25 answers · asked by prince s 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Movies
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2006-06-20 21:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was 18, I proposed to my girlfriend. Later that year, we split up. I'm not going to say that you shouldn't marry her. Many of my friends are living happy married lives. If I were to offer any advice, it would be that just because you are engaged doesn't mean that you have to get married right away. You can be engaged for years before getting married. Talk with your fiancee and let her know what's going through your head. She might be having cold feet as well. Even if she backs out, it doesn't mean that you won't be able to get together later on in life. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. Get your feelings out and find out how she feels. Also, some helpful people to talk with include: Your parents, her parents, and your friends.
2006-06-20 18:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by soatenor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart BUT listen to your head. Remember that LOVE is not enough. Marrige needs alot more than emotions to keep it alive. Things like a stable job, support from your family, and a good place to live are just starters. You also need to look into the future and plan for it.
The truth is I know a lot of people that got married when they were 30 to 40 yrs old that didn't make it and I know a number of couples that married at 17, 18, or 19 that are still going strong 40 yrs later. (my parents for starters.)
Good luck with your decision.
2006-06-20 09:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by irartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask strangers this question, I would say you aren't ready. I would wait, after all what's the rush. If she really loves you she can wait for you to be a little older. Divorce is expensive and you don't want to make a mistake when you are so young. Like I said, I would wait and if your girl really loves you, she will respect that. You have your whole life ahead of you to get married when you are older. I would say at least wait until 21 because relationships do change when some people become legal.
2006-06-20 09:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by jetskichick25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Boy. I think its great that you have someone in this day in age. I mean you actually found someone in this big old world, and for that, you are lucky. Now, I think its also great that someone has the courage to propose. There is nothing wrong with thinking about it. If you care for that person, let them know it! If your not ready, let them know that too but, make sure they know that you are serious (if you are). If you feel that you both are mature and ready, have a long engagement, like till after college for example. Spend a lot of time together and get to know each other in all kinds of situations. Good luck!
2006-06-20 10:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are very young...this is no time to marry... u are not mature enough for this according to me!!
see marriage is not atall bad...but right things done at right time is enjoyed better!! thats how i think!!!
atleast u should wait to turn 20/21 ... little more mature...
till then u can concentrate on ur career..get settled ...get urself a secure future...then do watever u want to!!
enjoy ur college life
its good that u love a girl and u want to marry her... but i guess ...u both are pretty immature...u should give ur relationship and urself some time!!
rest ur life ur wish buddy... there are ppl who have married at young age and are living happy now...there are ppl who says.. they should have waited few more years and then should have got married... ITS ALL FATE!!! what will happen next i cant assure u of that.
but if i was at ur place..i guess i would have waited ....
2006-06-20 09:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if you have to ask... definately not. marriage should be the easiest decision you ever make. If you find yourself wondering if it's the right thing for you, it probably isn't. Beleive me, when you're faced with someone, the right someone, whom you love, desperately, you'll want to spend your life with them. No one will be able to talk you out of it. You certainly wouldn't be asking complete starangers for advice. My advice is this: Take a breather from eachother. See what life is like without them. If it's miserable, maybe you two just have issues to work out. If you don't notice a hellova difference, then you were right to question your heart.
2006-06-20 09:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by poosh-pah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the answer is no. Because unless you are absolutely, completely, entirely, undeniably sure then you shouldn't marry another. You shouldn't produce children and you shouldn't plan for the rest of your lives until you know you'll be together.
2006-06-20 09:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by moviegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You should wait until you are both out of college and have stable careers that give you enough support before you two even think about getting married.
2006-06-20 09:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are way too young. Take it from someone who's been there done that. Get a college degree before you even THINK about getting married to anyone.
2006-06-20 09:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! I don't care how in love you two may be you are going to change as you grow and until you are about 30 you shouldn't marry anyone. Have fun or you will regret it.
2006-06-20 09:24:36 · answer #11 · answered by September 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋