i am bi i am a female and i do have a boyfriend but when i tell people i am bi they say mean things!
2006-06-20 09:17:40 · 15 answers · asked by Jenelle 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
They're just mean and they want to put words in God's mouth.
When they say mean things to you just ignore them or tell them if they can't accpet you they are not worth your time.
2006-06-20 09:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by KAiT 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is another one that's asked over and over again. First of all PEOPLE don't hate gays. You should say SOME PEOPLE.
Most streight people dislike the fact that gays are going against the plan of nature. Male and female are designed to keep life going. Male and male ,or female and female can't reproduce, therefore they're going against the plan of nature. Only in humans can you find a male sexually satisfying another male, or a female another female.
In other words, it's not normal, therefore it's freakish.
2006-06-20 09:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons that you could be getting the reaction which you are. I think 'hate' is a strong way to describe it. But, I understand that is how you feel you are being treated. You need to begin by understanding that 'bi' is not of the 'norm' as our society terms 'norm'. You need to accept that, as with any preference which is not of the 'norm', you will receive some negative reactions if you choose to share that you are 'bi'. It is unfortunate that many allow the 'norms' as deemed by society to shape and mold their belief systems rather than to be true to themselves.
All of that aside, some of the reasons you may get such reactions are:
- a lack of understanding
- persons may find it too personal and feel uncomfortable
- some may find it disgusting
- some may misundertstand your preference as you having loose morals or being uncertain as to your wants in life
- some may feel threatened by it
-religious reasons also often cause such reactions
The bottomline is that you need to feel comfortable with your sexual decision. As long as you can honestly say to yourself that you are being true to yourself, then you can honest surmise that the reactions you receive (and likely will continue to receive) are based on others' experiences and influences in their own lives.
Stay true to yourself, morally and in your heart. Either decide you are comfortable being who you are and remain the same or decide the opposite. Being comfortable with who you are means feeling confident and sure enough about it to withstand the negative reactions without feeling the need to defend yourself.
I wish you love and luck1
2006-06-20 09:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by onejazzyjul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow off these people.Pretend your mother had told you to do the laundry and let it go in one ear and out the other. Hateful people want to ruin your day. Don't let them. You can spend your whole life being angry at idoits who wish to spread anger, or you can rise above them like a bubble rising up from a pan, and be the one who comes out on top. It is your choice how you are going to let it affect you. I say: Don't let it affect you.
2006-06-20 09:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the ones for u to ignore. All girls should be Bi.
2006-06-20 09:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by jimbob92065 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you going to hell right! If your gay your going down! People will make fun of you because every single day of your life your liveing in sin.But those who hate you will go to hell too.Because god said"love thy neighbor.And MLK said "violence is not an option.So just walk away because they are doing wrong too.So you be the better person and walk away.Im not gay I just feel bad for them.
2006-06-23 12:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by bannaman50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just accept that some people don't agree with the lifestyle. Let them know that it is your choice and move on with it. How does it come up that you are bisexual anyways? Typically that is not a topic of casual conversation.
2006-06-20 09:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by jshepard17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate gay people. I have male gay friends. A few in the family also.
I don't personally understand them,But I feel no hate for them.
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2006-06-20 09:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well besides being a good way to filter through your true friends, you might want to consider who you tell. Besides your sexuality is only one part of who you are. You are not a sex-offender, you dont have to go around confessing anything to anyone. If it comes up tell, because that is part of who you are, but dont go around informing everyone about your sexuality. They dont!
2006-06-20 09:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Nrassm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know... I don't go around telling people I'm straight...it's nobody's business... why do you make your sexual preferences other peoples business?
I think everyone has a right to their own sexuality...but stop waving the flag in our faces.
2006-06-20 09:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by gcbtrading 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋