I'm going out with the father of my daughter who is well known...and theres never a week i dont pass without someone telling me a story about him and some other girl.... He tells me its a lie and that he loves me but should i believe..even i dont know...but one thing is my heart dont let me leave him??
2006-06-20 09:10:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If people are telling you things, listen. I made that mistake and listened to him telling me that these people were jealous of him and that they were lying. They weren't.
2006-06-20 09:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh girl that is such a hard question to answer because I know exactly how you feel...that love is so deep inside you it feels like your world would end if he left you or vice versa.
Who are these people telling you these storys? Your sister, brother best friend, someone you can trust?
You never know they may be lieing just so you will break up with him and they can move in. I sent a message to my fiance's ex girlfriend and she told me that she and my fiance were planning on visiting eachother without me finding out like two years ago when we were dating and suppossidly in love..I told my fiance and he said she is a liar and a psycho...i believe him half way and the other half doesnt...but I know he is faithful to me, I dont think he has ever cheated on me but you just have to trust your heart....I may sound like a stalker but I found out the pass code to his voice mail and I check it once in a while and I would follow him if I needed to....I could find anything out if I wanted...maybe you should just do a little digging just so you can put your conscience to rest. I wouldnt leave him unless I had proof....dont start too many fights with him about it either, it could just be some jealous ***** spreading rumors. If you guys could make it work that would be soooo great for your kid. Hope this helps.
2006-06-20 09:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by lovemybaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen, and come to find out AFTER 5 YEARS!! He was in fact cheating on me the whole time. With random whores at the bar, etc. People never told me, maybe once in a while they'd hint, but no real stories. Are these people trustworthy or at least friends of HIS too? You have to consider the source, however, my sources were all crazy and it ended up being totally true. You will leave him when you really believe it and feel totally destroyed. It's a horrible feeling, but what's better being alone or being cheated on? I chose to be alone rather than cheated on and now, I have an awesome boyfriend who treats me well, who I don't trust because of what happened to me in the past, and at this point I think my jealousy and insecurity is sabotaging our relationship. I think it's best for you to find someone who will treat you right, before you get burned....and screw up YOUR future relationships.
2006-06-20 09:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by sonnyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on your gut instinct.....from what you said, it sounds like there could be "some" truth to these stories....now whether they are elaborated on or embellished....I'm not sure, but I would not simply take his word for it unless you know where he is most of the time. Always look out for yourself, you deserve that much, I know what it feels like to constantly hear rumours of the one you love and "situations" they have been in...it really hurts and you don't know which way to turn, all you know is that you love them terribley and with all of your heart. If there is any way to somehow "spy" on him, I would do it...I know that sounds harsh but what if he has been making a fool out of you this whole time...don't you deserve to know?? You need to remain calm, cool and collected and have another talk with him, telling him that....IF for WHATEVER reason, you should find out that he has been deceiving you and lying to you repeatedly...you WILL NOT hesitate to get rid of him...no matter how much it hurts. Tell him that you can do MUCH better than that...and someone out there will be more than willing to treat you the way that you deserve to be treated!! The trick is to be strong when you say it and MEAN what you say!! He needs to get the impression that you do mean business!
I'll be rooting for you and your daughter....you have to remember her too...you don't want her to grow up thinking that this is the way that relationships wind up....be thinking of her as well, you are her role model!
I believe in you! Good Luck!!
2006-06-20 09:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't believe everything you hear - alot of it is probably crap. You need to talk to him and ask him to be honest with you. You already have a child together - he should have a pretty good idea is he wants to be with you or not, so why are you just dating?
Have a talk with him and find out where he stands. If he is seeing other people you have a right to know.
2006-06-20 09:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to other people....if hes with you it means he cares about you. tell the people who are saying those things that they need to stop telling you that because you dont care what they say. i did that before and it almost ruined the best relationship of my life.
2006-06-20 09:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should only believe what you see.. if you love him so much and cant leave him then y r u confused u already know what you want
2006-06-20 09:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by reena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is true to me. So either choose to ignore it or
2006-06-20 09:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well greeneyes act like a tiger and find out
2006-06-20 09:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋