I gave off the wrong image to alot of my friends.?

Question

I gave off the wrong image to alot of my friends. I told them my boyfriend problems and like very serious sexual ones even to my guy friends and all and I sometimes actred really hyper and trhat isn't me. How can I prove them otherwise?

Answer 1

Ah, the first impression is always the lasting impression. If you aren't that way then stop pretending you are. Chances are, it is obvious that you are putting on a show. Just be yourself. You don't have to explain to them that you aren't that way. Let your actions speak for themselves. For future reference, always be yourself. The truth comes out eventually anyhow. Best of luck.

Answer 2

It is a well known experience that what you resist persists. Take a Breath... just breathe and relax a minuite and hear this. Every moment of every day you get to choose who you want to be. You can change your mind any time you like. The road to Mastery (growing up in a healthy way reguardless of who your parents are) is learning how to make the same 'good' choices for yourself over and over. As you grow and advance in your skills of doing this you will find that a behavior or impulse that has surved you in the past is no longer surving you. (The attention you used to like has now turned into a bit of negitive attention which is casuing you stress.) You see that - you get it... Half aware is nearly there.

It would appear that you are already there in this instance. Way to go Girl- you are awakening to your true inner self. This is very good and very wise of you. Take heart that this experience is really a Blessing.

Now the next step in decieding who you are is getting the thoughts of others out of your head. It can be hard when you have the people who love you the most trying to remind you of who they think you are all the time. Understand it does not matter, as you start to choose how you want to talk and be and what you want to share you will start noticing subtle clues in your being (intuition) that tell you which way to go and when to stop talking. ;-) If your not sure if you should say or do it- be silent and let the moment pass and then look at what transpired and see if it surved you.
You will learn to trust yourself again and after all,
That is the most important thing.

Be at Peace- you are young and the choices that you make right now are all blessings that surve you... the happier you are with yourself the happier choices you will make naturally... like attracts like in the laws of physics.

A great movie to watch is "What the Bleep do We Know?" Is illustrates some of what I've said.

Blessings and Peace to you and all you meet.
So Be It!

Answer 3

Actions speak louder than words. Act in the manner you want them to see you.