2006-06-20 08:45:47 · 25 answers · asked by ~*Katie*~ 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
have him and 5 buddies sit on the floor.say"all new daddys stand up"
then ask him"why the hell are you still sitting?"
2006-06-20 08:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
A. Take him by the hand and say, hey _____, you know how my parents think you are not the one for me and that I am wasting my time? Well, I have some news that will keep us together for at least 18 -21 years. BTW- Happy Belated Father's Day.
B. If he is older than 18 and you are younger, you can tell him that he should get religious because he is about to have a jail ministry.
C. Or, you can just say: You know, when you have sex there are consequences. We need to talk about what we will do if the pregnancy test I took comes back positive. And don't even think about abortion. Two wrongs don't make a right. Murder is not the answer. We can talk about adoption. What are your thoughts?
BTW - Congrats. Wish you well.
2006-06-20 15:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, it is the biggest shock anyone will have to go through and you guys need to be in a place that you can freak out for a few minutes. I told mine in our bedroom at home. We sat there quiet for a while then talked about how we were going to handle it. I hope you don't think of it as bad news, because it is the most wonderful thing you will ever experience. Scary as hell, and never gets easier, but wonderful. I wish you luck and i hope you experience the same joy i have. Oh, and don't get married just because you are pregnant! The biggest mistake, just wait until after you have the baby to make that decision. Your marriage needs to be founded on love and not because of a baby, that could cause you guys to resent each other then causing a bad environment for the baby.
2006-06-20 15:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you think hard about what you want, because most likely he's going to be shell shocked and look to you for guidance on this one. Then you just calmly tell him that he's going to be a father. If you're excited about it, don't be scared to tell him, but don't hold you breath for a Tom Cruise jumping on the couch moment. Most men (I think) take a little bit of time to process news like that. Good luck!
2006-06-20 15:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by REDLAKEDOG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m sorry I just wanted to tell everyone that it's weird that I have 911 points!!
and about your sitch, talk to him alone that's best. If you do it in a public place that's ok too, though it won't be as special or private and you'll display your problems to the world!!
2006-06-20 15:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T tell him over the phone ... do it in person ... just say we really need to talk , have him sit down and say im pregnant
he's either going to be sad , mad , scared or all of the above ...
GOOD luck .... !!!
2006-06-20 15:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by fuchsialov3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a restaurant over dinner, best place for bad news.
2006-06-20 15:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just build up the courage and tel him while the both of ya are alone in his or your room and ask him What do you think about kids?, Do you want kids?, and Would you love to hav a kid with me? if he ask why just tel him.
2006-06-20 15:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, don't try to sweeten the moment. And be mentally ready for whatever reaction he has-good or bad.
2006-06-20 15:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by suheilly13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could tell ur bf like this start of nice and slow and say it like ur sad give him a nice bowl of soup or sumthin and then tell him when ur down hug him and say i'm sorry but if he's happy about it then that's diffrent.
2006-06-20 15:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by courtcourt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you planing on keeping it if so do this
make baby back ribs
baby corn
make babycupcakes blue and pink maybe he will get the hint
2006-06-20 15:53:01 · answer #11 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋