if you were fat and ugly what would you do?

Answer 1

i dunno.

Answer 2

I would not become friends with a beauty queen to get her fallouts. I would build up a good intelligence base and work at jobs that didn't require public contact, saveing enough money to alter my appearance with Plastic Surgury, life is too short to waste it feeling sorry for ones self. However most fat ugly people I have known act as if they aren't, and some other people believe them.

Answer 3

1. First, you need to not think you are ugly. Very few people in the world are ugly by everyone's standards. Stand in the mirror and look at everything you like about your face and yourself. Look at each item at a time. Maybe you have great hair that just needs a more becoming style. Maybe you have great eyes that are hiding behind the wrong glasses. Maybe your face is just fine, but you have no personal style that you are comfortable with.

2. Don't let anyone tell you it is more important about how you feel on the inside then the outside. That's bull. BOTH are important. If how you look wasn't important, you would not have posted the question. But with that said, you need to feed off of whatever makes you feel good about yourself, even if it isn't how you look, so that you feel more confident. Confidence shows through on a person's face and makes them more attractive to others. No joke. It is the truth.

3. I don't know your reference point for fat. Are you "anerexic-minded" fat, "too many bony, Size 1 girls around you, but you are only an size 8" fat, or are you "I have to shop in Plus Size section" fat?

4. Assuming we are dealing with the present tense (and you don't want a "lose weight" answer, which is future tense), buy clothes that fit you properly. Don't wear "flowing" clothes but don't wear "too tight" clothes, either. Wear current styles but ones that are the right size and flattering to your shape.

5. Don't get hung up on the size of the clothes, worry about your clothes fitting you right. If you have a gut, don't wear tight, belly shirts. If you have a huge butt, don't wear low-slung jeans. If you have large or nice size breast, show a little cleavage, but don't have them jiggling everywhere. If you are short, wear V necks, avoid suit jackets and wear shorter skirts to make you look taller.

6. Get a haircut, something different from what you have now.

7. See what can be changed about your face (without surgery) and do it. Maybe you need to get your brows shaped. Maybe you should where a little lip gloss and eye liner. Maybe a dermatologist can help you if you have a skin problem. Maybe you should switch to contacts...heck, "colored" contacts. Have some fun.

8. Smile more. People who smile feel better about themselves and look more attractive to others. They also get people to smile back. If someone smiles at you, you will feel better about yourself. You will have to practice if it doesn't come natural to you. Just pick a day when you are out a lot, maybe at a mall, and smile and say hi to people you don't know. You won't catch everyones eye, but you will catch some. It will feel good and you will feel more attractive. Seriously. It will be an ego booster. You're kind of controlling others to get them to smile.

9. This is the most important one. Find a few friends, who are more confident then you and whose styles you like, and let them help you spruce up your look. Just DO WHAT THEY SAY, don't argue. They will have so much fun and be so proud of how they helped you that they will be BRAGGING to everyone how good you look. You'll feel better and you will get more feedback from others about how you look. Another ego booster.

So, why do I know all of this? I'm 5'6", 240 lbs, very pretty, and dress very stylishly. But, I have thinning hair for a woman, braces, a gut and glasses. And yet, I know I'm pretty and I look good.

I was 130 lbs for years, until I starting having babies. When I picked up all of my extra weight, I went through a period when I uncomfortable with my look, I'd wear tent clothes, and I'd tear myself down. But I got over it. I wasn't going to drop 100 lbs overnight, so I had to live in the moment and be ME again.

I prefer to think of myself as "chubby" and I NEVER thought I was ugly...imperfect, but not ugly. My frame of mind is that I am a "regular size" woman, trapped in a "chubby body". My imperfections and my weight do not define me.

Answer 4

Excercise and Diet. You can't fix ugly, but you can at least lose weight.

Personally though, I don't believe that anyone on this earth is ugly. And also, excercise promotes positive thoughts, so if someone works out they will feel better about themselves in the end.

Answer 5

Try something that fits you better as far as you appearance, clothes, makeup, etc. Everyone has flaws but its what you do with them. If you are tired of being fat and ugly. Lose weight and see if that solves your problem. If not..Oh well

Answer 6

Exercise and alter my eating habits so I could lose weight, keep myself and my clothes clean, ironing what clothes need to be ironed, fix my hair reasonably, and be sure to always brush AND FLOSS MY TEETH, and develop a better, more self-assured posture in sitting and standing. I'd pray to God for the necessary support to do such a "makeover" in my existence, and then, get on with it. Oh, and you might, as you go along, observe the social behaviors of those you want to be around, because I have a hunch your popularity's gonna go sky-high!! God Bless you!!

Answer 7

If i was fat and ungl,the very first thing i would do is to join a gym and exercise as much as i can.This would atleast help me to reduce my weight and become fit.
Secondly,i would probably go to a nice "BEAUTY PARLOUR" and pamper myself a bit wid facial and a very nice hair cut so that even though i dont look beautiful but atleast i will look much smarter.
This seems expensive but in the long run you will not regret on the things u did for urself.
takecare and be happy.

Answer 8

I am so fat I won't fit through any doorway and so ugly that I scream every time I go by a mirror

Answer 9

been there 'n done that 'n i was depressed most of da tym...it was difficult for me 2 get clothes 'n no guys would blink my way...now i lost all the weight 'n the same guys that didn't blink at me r more than just lookin at me...to cut it short i was an ugly duckling who turned 2 b a beautiful swan...

Answer 10

You are disgusting! I hate people like you! Everybody is beautiful, dammit, no matter what shape or size!!!! Personally, if I was big boned, I would look at myself in the mirror and tell myself i was beautiful everyday. There are more skinny, anorexic, bitchy, no good people in this world than there are big people. Get a life, you bastard!

Answer 11

Loose weight. Dress myself up as best as I could. And if nothing else work on my personality. No matter how attractive a person is, if they are mean or annoying, they aren't worth being around. It is truly what is inside that makes a person great.