Have you all heard about this? Husbands are allowed, actually encouraged, to spank their wives and make them stand in the corner for doing something wrong! Further, they give their wives "maintainance spankings" (which is in my oppinion just an excuse to beat their women when they feel like it, without needing a valid reason). This is not a light tap on the rump, either. These are real spankings, sometimes with belts or paddles, that may last for 20 minutes or more. Why don't these women see that this is abuse? I believe what it amounts to is a freakie religeous cult. What do you all think? I think these men should be arrested, and then beat themselves. This is not the dark ages, after all.
2006-06-20 08:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by Okkieneko 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a suposed Christian thing, by the way. Practiced by certain churches, from what I understand.
2006-06-20 08:38:39 · update #1
No, it is not involving sex or kinky, cute behavior...it is punishment.
2006-06-20 08:40:09 · update #2
I think that is insane. It's pretty freaky. Iam all for the man as the head of the house, but that doesnt make him any better than a woman, she's the neck after all. he wouldnt get anywhere without her pointing the right direction.
Although, being married myself, i do tend to be a brat and do things i know my husband has asked me not to (because he has goals for us as a family that we both agreed to.. especially money) or i do something thats dangerous to myself or my unborn. I kinda wish he had a way of holding me accountable. But not beating me for twenty minutes with a belt.
God thats creepy.
2006-06-20 08:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 10⤊ 9⤋
i'm a guy very conscious of family contributors self-discipline. i'm the guy who's disciplined and additionally the only with the pastime. I take it heavily, i did no longer choose it spanking based. i'm subject to be paddled and confusing, and there is the thank you to "neutralize" a guy's erotic hobbies for a short couple of minutes. Then a spanking isn't relaxing, it sucks and you get what you're meant to get. Punished. I see as many men choose it as women persons. it truly is glaring which of two adults habit isn't as much as par. probable immature or irresponsible. the a lot look baffled by making use of such an association and brush aside it as stupid intercourse video games. it truly is or it truly is a humbling journey. I do observe my spouse isn't in all probability into it yet has tried. actually it truly is me attempting to be purpose and having her make judgements and decide ho i'm punished. "Fines" from spending money, loss of internet, having to flow to mattress early, dropping privileges, etc. There are perchance close to to twenty techniques she has.
2016-10-31 04:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by zubrzycki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never actually heard of domestic discipline... but it sounds like abuse to me, what the difference between a slap on the face and a slap on the rear if your trying to 'punish' someone, especially your wife. Sounds like those guys need to be arrested, or at least shown that doing this kind of thing to your wife is wrong, and against the law.
2006-06-20 08:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Weda B 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's part of the Muslim culture it a way to disicipline the wife and it's not a hit to the face it's a tap on the hand with a chew stick I can't spell the correct saying for the stick I believe it a Mishwa stick there are ways they believe to disicipline with out the pyhsical beating it's not so bad but for American Independant women it won't fly but that's how they live so don't knock it!
2006-06-20 08:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Danette 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know quite a few couples who practise various forms of DD. In some cases it's mutual - the husband/boyfriend also gets spanked when he breaks the rules - but it seems to be more commonly M/F. It wouldn't be my thing - for me, spanking's essentially a fun erotic activity, with the 'punishment' element all part of the game - but these people seem pretty happy with it and say it works for them. I don't think it's always religion-based - and after all, it's consensual. So as always, whatever floats your boat....
2006-06-20 21:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i have not heard of this and is it a bdsm thing, kinky for fun? Is this a sex game for the couple? Why is it that only the women get spanked? i want a spanking
2006-06-20 08:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by sadnservice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i haven't heard of it but i would hope there aren't that many stupid women out there!! of course there are though, the women obviously have issues and the men are obviously morons, hopefully wherever they are the authorities will step in and put a stop to it.
2006-06-20 08:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are right this is punishment and abuse and should not be happening at all. I see it as abuse and meanness and they need to be punished for this and sent to jail. This is just plain wrong.
2006-06-20 11:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wow that is crazy- i dont even know what to say
2006-06-20 08:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by sexysnowboarder 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋