When is it okay to hit your spouse?

Question

Sometimes shes really just annoying, and it would only HELP if I hit her, right?

Answer 1

You MUST be joking.

Answer 2

I know you do NOT really believe that. It is never OK to hit your spouse. I was once an abused spouse, so I can tell you that even abusive speech can do incredible harm. Once you break that trust, it can never be rebuilt. I would suggest seeking some kind of help or even just advice from a trusted source if you are considering violence as a solution to an "Annoying" mate. If you do inflict abuse on your mate, you have just given up your humanity and are an animal as far as I'm concerned. Actually, not even an animal, because they do not abuse their mates. I do have one other tid-bit to add... Women who think that they can hit men with no consequences because "you aren't supposed to hit girls" are being incredibly unfair. If you start a physical fight with anyone (no matter your gender or theirs) be prepared to get hit back. If you happen to be the weaker, you shouldn't start fights unless you are prepared to win. And don't complain about the outcome.

Answer 3

Never! The best thing to do in those situations is walk away. Just tell her I need to get away from you right now, or one of us is going to say something that we will regret later. Be the bigger person. If she can't accept that then maybe you two should try counseling. Maybe the problem is worse than the two of you can handle alone. But hitting her is not going to solve anything, it will only make matters worse, and probably involve the police.

Answer 4

NEVER!! Your not animals your people and you should treat each other with a little respect . If you can't do that then you should not be in a relationship at all . Beating up on your spouse is abuse. And if your the type that thinks that is OK to do , then you need to get help.

Answer 5

When you really, really want to go to jail. If she's annoying you that badly walk away, get in you car and go for a drive. Even spend a night cooling off (alone) in a hotel room. But don't hit.

Answer 6

Its ok if you hit her where she wont get bruised or feel it after you hit her. Like the buttocks, But if she feels it after you've hit her then you've abused her. You should not be angry, and it should be a spanking not a beating. You cant hit her in the face or anywhere delicate. And only if your spouse is really disobedient, like comes home at 3 in the morning and you didnt know where she was, yeah she gets spanks. These hypocrites only wish they could spank their wives like me. She loves it. you punks cant spank cause your the ones getting spanked

Answer 7

It is never okay to hit your spouse. It will not help anything-it will probably make things alot worse.

Answer 8

every human being nourishes an animal with in his psyche, more wild a person thinks, more hostile this animal will shape up. donot have such negative ideas. if it has become so imperative, then hit your self as a punishment for doing less homework in searching a better spouse.

Answer 9

NEVER...my wife cheated on me with my friend and i didn't hit her...if you really need to hit on someone find me ...I'll take her hits...don't ever even think about hitting any female, unless you're a female...hit yourself first or even hit a wall...then get help...cause if you ever hit a woman in my family or even a woman i think i know...i can guarantee you you will be hit back over and over again...

Answer 10

NEVER! You should see why do you find her so annoying and you are not allowed to hit her for say nagging. Count to 10 till you forget your anger. But don`t hit her. Better divorce her.

Answer 11

It is never ok to hit your spouse, unless you are just having some fun.