I have found several letters from men telling what they would like to do. He can be very secretive at times. What should I do? I still love him more than he can imagine.
2006-06-20 08:16:44 · 12 answers · asked by Angel S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband may not be bisexual. He may have a problem with sexual addiction. Sometimes men with this type of addiction will act promiscuous and even have sexual relations with the same sex to feed this addiction. Contact sexual addictions anonymous and find out what to do. God bless.
2006-06-20 08:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wanted you to find out, otherwise he wouldn't have kept the letters. See what he wants in life, many men marry hoping that they will be straight and then find out living a lie does not work for them. Your husband didn't TURN bi, he always was. It is time to have a heart to heart, sounds like he wants a gay lifestyle and doesn't know how to tell you. I am sure he loves you but it may not be the kind of love a marriage is built on. It may be the love you feel for a sister or friend. There is no fixing this, he cannot change. Let him go and build a life for yourself with someone who likes women.
2006-06-27 15:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by jodi M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, honesty is the best policy in any relationship. Let him know you'll be there to support him, and then ask him to be open with you, because you don't want to doubt him, but you feel that there is something bothering you and you'd like him to be honest about it.
It works. :) But, you have to be very careful about your reaction, and then just really think about whether or not he's doing the right thing. If he's not, then help him through the process of how to get away from it or get around it.
2006-06-20 15:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Iram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off ask him what are the letters about then hire a private investegator if you feel in your gut he's not being honest with you there are too many STD"S going around to be playing wtih life!
2006-06-20 15:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful that he does not bring a deadly disease home to you.
If you found letters from a woman to your husband and what she would like to do with him, would you wait around to see what happens?
I'd ask him straight-up what is going on.
2006-06-20 15:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna have to bring it to the table, if you found letters and they are to him then you know that this is something that he has had serious thought about. you need to know where your marrage is going. Good luck.
2006-06-20 15:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AIDS is an awful way to die. So talk to your husband and find out whats really going on!
2006-06-20 15:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Aprilshowers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about this. Let him know what you know - don't confront him, just ask him to be honest with you. Let him know you love him no matter what he says.
2006-06-20 15:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him, communication is the key.
2006-06-20 15:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by cyndi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. If it is true, leave him.
2006-06-20 15:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by SAHM/Part Time Tutor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋