why do people say they are alone???

Question

when they never even bother to say a hello to their neighbours, nor live with their parents longer and then suffer from lonelyness? why don't they make a friendly relation with their area people and visit each other, talk and discuss things everyday......and still want everybody to notice their new car, new make-up???why do they have friends on net but not in their own area??they don't even know who resides next door....and they say they are depressed. We have community centres,play centres for kids.........but resist to play with our next door kids. No matter we see same peeps in the area park but we don't know where and what about them.........and we say we are bored,we need some entertainment. We want everybody to notice us, talk to us, but we resist when they do so........whats happening with this world....lol.

Answer 1

People say they are alone because they don't have any relationships that are meaningful - no good friends or people who truly understand them. Saying hi to the neighbors isn't going to cure loneliness. People tend to have a lot of friends on the net because it's an easy place to chat and meet people, it requires little to no effort, and there is no fear of rejection.
Friends (at least quality ones) aren't easy to meet. If you don't have some friends from childhood, high school, or college it is tough to make real quality friends - but it's not impossible.

Answer 2

people are alone because they enter a cicle of inner and outer loneliness and they just can't leave it. Mostly also because that becomes a known space to them and it's much less scary than interacting with others for the evident reasons. It's safer to live alone for people that have tried for a long time with all their forces to integrate.Some people are just marked.It's a pitty because these lonely persons could be excellent friends as they would value friendship a lot more because they never truly had it

Answer 3

I think there is too much emphasis on the negative aspects of being alone, I love being alone and don't equate it with loneliness. I have a boyfriend, some wonderful friends, yet I very often prefer to be on my own. I think some contact with others is essential...although not too much for me...lol

Answer 4

Most everyone feels alone; we feel as though we are carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders and we are doing it alone. No one could possibly understand what we are going through, the pain and sorrows that we might have. Yes, most everyone as been there. Including myself. But God only gives us what he knows we can handle.

Answer 5

its all a nice thought but its not that easy for some people and other people are busy with their own lives and don't think maybe this person is lonely and could use a friend.

Answer 6

definite and no. In my daily existence i'm spiritually touring by myself. yet luckily I actual have a pal that I met right here, who shares my course with me from afar. And we help eachother alongside the way. :)

Answer 7

people who suffer from depression feel that they are alone in the world not because of thier desease---they are afraid of rejection from people sometimes as well---hope this answered ya alittle bit

Answer 8

some people like myself get rejected by others so much you lose faith after it happens so many times. My POV, after you are alone for so long you get used to it and after awhile you almost PREFER it. Not to say I Like it that way, I HATE IT.

Answer 9

More and more people are depressed. That's what happens when your depressed and don't have enough self confidence or self love.

Answer 10

The power of the Internet....it helps us cope with being rejected in person!!!!!