My boyfriend gives more attention to his sister than me... What should I do?
He loves me and I love him... REALLY love him but sometimes i feel jealous seeing him spending more time with his younger sister... I even think he loves his sister just like a man loves a woman... (incest?)
He's an orphan however and his sister is his only known-blood relative left...
2006-06-20 08:03:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she is his sister. and you need to realize that. i have a brother who is not even a year older than me. and we are best friends. he dated one of our friends and it drove her crazy when we would hang out. chances are your boyfriend isn't going to sleep with his sister, leave you for his sister, run away with his sister. because she is . . . his sister. you never know she probably feels threatened by you for taking away her older brother. . . and only blood relative. you need to try and not be selfish, and just realize that it is pretty unfair to expect someone to put all of their love into one person. maybe let him know you are feeling a bit neglected. but don't make him give up his relationship with his only sister.
2006-06-20 08:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by xgazgirlx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him how you feel but you have to undertsand being an orphan isn't easy at all so if his sister is the only blood relative alive he's gonna do anything for her stay in the same home with him so bare with him it's not that he doesn't love you or have feelings for you he's over protective of his younger sister cause he has to take of her like she was his own daughter since they don't have any family left
2006-06-20 08:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A brother/sister do share a special bond - and your bf must love his sister very much especially because they are the only blood relatives left. You shouldn't be jealous of his sister - you need to understand the bond they share. However, if you think that there are some romantic feelings or anything like that going on - you should bring it up to your bf (or his parents if he is underage or the sister is underage).
2006-06-20 08:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't assume incest, thats sick. I'm sure that they're just really close- close enough to make you uncomfortable simply because she's female- think about it in terms of if she was his little brother, would you still suspect incest? You are jealous of his relationship with his sister- that is the bottom line- you can express that but I would personally not expect any change. Thats why I have a rule to never date a guy who's a mommy's boy. I can't deal with it. If a guy who's really close with his sister isn't something you can deal with, than move on, there's plenty of fish in the sea, find one who can make you the #1 woman in his life.
2006-06-20 08:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your letting your Jealousy get the best of you. YOu insist you love him. Only to accuse him of posssible Incest. I'm not hear to rag on you but I will say this and hopefully it helps. YOu need to back off. YOu are just a girlfriend. This is his sister his famly line. you probably only been dating for lest then 5 years so your not much in his life
2006-06-20 08:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by TpT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, both of you, should respect time and time will bring balance! You, as his sister need attention! He also needs plenty! His condition is severe and he is doing fine! You, all of you, have to understand each another and work as a team which will eventually be strong and happy!
2006-06-24 22:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your place i d be the same way dear...
family never comes first as others say
love is the 1 and the only
you have to let him feel u r jealous
and you deserve attention...
i d never say my sister or bro comes 1st. my love my man comes 1st coz we all are building our own families with them
do yours! u must be 1st for ur bf
2006-06-20 08:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Maka n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully he is not into his sister like that mayb you should watch and make sure.(be careful) also if that is his only relative then he is probably afraid to lose her and wats to be with her. you could do things with them both or let him know that u need some "we" time. don't make him feel like you are tried to seperate the too b/c he will feel like you don't want them together.
good luck
2006-06-20 08:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bond between a brother and a sister no one can break that
he luvs her hes not in love with her
and if thats all he has left then maybe hes afraid hell lose her too
2006-06-20 08:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by sexy beast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like they are too close, then that is just weird. i would move out of the way. i wouldn't want to be part of a freaky show. it does happen more that what we hear about. so, if you have a gut feeling, let him go. that is just nasty!
2006-06-20 08:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋