2006-06-20 08:00:53 · 17 answers · asked by mystic angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this friend is in a great dilemma on her marriage life, dared you one time you went out together with a casual and common boy friend to have a kiss while she was looking, without your knowledge that these two have been going out dating for a year, and the guy told this friend that he likes to have fun with you, What if she ask forgiveness?Should you try to understand why she did it, wouldn't it make you look like an idiot?
2006-06-22 16:54:45 · update #1
u shud give her da silent treatment 4 a few days. but if u rly r best friends den u prob dnt wnt ur freindship 2 end there!! so punish her for a few days by not talkin 2 her then 4give her n give her another chance!! (unless u av already given her loads of chances) ur not best m8s 4 no reason so she must av done it 4 a reason or a moment of madness lol u will just end up being bitter n depressed if u dnt 4give her. n ppl say "ur better of wivout her" etc but its not dat simple in reality to just let ur best friend go
2006-06-20 22:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by funny people 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a guys perspective it would depend on what that person did. Once all the facts are there that question is easier to answer. However you really need to talk about it and see if you agree to the why. You should never throw away a friendship without knowing all the facts could be just a simple case of misunderstanding.
2006-06-20 15:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by aj_mase56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set u up with what? I didn't understand that. But if you mean like in a bad way then i think that u should confront her on it. Ask her did she do it out of jealousy or outta fun? either way i still don't think she deserves to be called best friend.
2006-06-20 15:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by baby_t88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has deliberately set you up for something bad, avoid her - she's not really your friend.
If she set you up by accident, try to understand why. Is she plain stupid or does she just not care about your feelings like she should? Either way proceed with the friendship cautiously.
2006-06-20 15:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you mean by "set you up" because if my so called friend "set me up" in a way that I thought could cause harm to me or jeopardize something important to me then I would do way more than avoid her.
2006-06-20 15:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Shya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and find out why she did it. I'm not saying be best friends with her, but understand why she did and forgive her.
2006-06-20 15:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she set you up just for a laugh and a bit of fun??
Or to get you into trouble not sure about your question.
2006-06-20 15:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by sophie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she set a trap to catch you doing something wrong? if so then she is not a true friend. i would avoid her. there is no telling what she could do next.
2006-06-20 15:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she do to set you up?
In most cases I'd say you should leave her behind, but it really depends on what she did.
2006-06-20 15:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should avoid her shes not your friend cause if shes your friend she would of backdown on the setup. even if it is a good reason still avoid her cause she should not did what she did.
2006-06-20 15:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by sphipps67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋