Am away from my wife and I am finding it more and more difficult to be faithful. She couldn't wait and I don't know if I should as well. I haven't seen her in 9 months and I am finding myself actually looking at other women and thinking of ways to rationalize it....What should I do?
2006-06-20 07:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by JFraz_03894 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she cheated on me with an ex of hers, I am half-way around the world in Kuwait in the military so I can't just drop in for a quickie. she gave birth 7 months ago to our son whom I haven't seen yet, believe me my heart says to wait but there is only so much that a hand can do
2006-06-20 08:09:46 · update #1
write you wife a letter telling her how you feel.she should be more understanding your putting your life on the line. there's nothing wrong with masterbating. but your relationship has more problem s then you wanting sex.your wife needs to put a side what she wants and think about you a little more you deserve better then that
2006-06-20 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stopped thinking about other woman! And sex...truth be told, cheating is the worse thing you can do....I know a couple right now that are going through a divorce after 10 years of being together because the husband cheated on the wife with her friend who has an STD and got her pregnant...I know it sounds very Jerry Springer, but now this Wife is devasted! She has 3 kids with this man, the youngest is almost two! Just keep telling yourself cheating doesnt pay, you dont want to hurt your wife. THat should keep you straight!
2006-06-20 08:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by bbsweets_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She couldn't wait? If you are cool with that then it sounds like you have an open relationship.
Marriage is a sacred vow. If you need to get your rocks off then rub one out. I would be bummed if my wife slept with someone else because I was away for whatever reason.
Bottom line there is no rationalization. Sounds like you are already ready to go though so...just don't kid yourself. It will be the wrong thing to do.
2006-06-20 08:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by frontmann2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your wife. I know this is a hard time for you but try to think about something else. Being horny is never a good reason to look at other women. Take a deep breath and relax and call your wife. You can try a hobby or something that doesn't involve sex.
2006-06-20 08:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can actually talk to your wife about this, maybe she will give you the go ahead to see other women. Or you can use your hands, or get one of those dolls that they are making in the porn industry these days. It has real human-like skin and boobs and it can even give you a ********. You have many options, but talk to your wife before you do anything.
2006-06-20 08:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls be faithful to your wife. I totally believe in masturbation and i say go for it. But don't cheat on ur wife.
2006-06-20 08:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbate, duhh. Sorry, that was mean, my appologies. But, seriously if she is being faithful than so can you. Have you considered putting all this energy into trying to meet her somewhere for a day or two? Best wishes
2006-06-20 08:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your wife about this, you need to have the kind of relationship with her that can be open an honest about your feelings and drives.
Tell her your frustrations.
2006-06-20 08:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your hand and why has she been away from you for 9 months?
2006-06-20 08:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by T B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all ready cheated in your heart.
your gonna do it sooner or later
what is in your mind you will act on sooner or later.
and if ya have to rationalize or justify an action- that makes it wrong anyway :-)
2006-06-20 08:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋