what would you do first?... live w/ your boyfriend/girlfriend before marriage or get married then live together?? and why?
2006-06-20 07:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by tonic072780 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you move in first...it's kind of like that old saying..why buy the cow when you get the milf for free
2006-06-20 07:59:43 · update #1
milk not milf...sorry
2006-06-20 08:00:17 · update #2
live in first. moving out and breaking leases is not nearly as big an issue as getting divorced is. By living with them first, you get a better idea of what you are really getting into, rather than just dreaming of how happy things will be when you re married and live together
2006-06-20 07:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by jason b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to stay together a few nights but not "move in" and wait to get married before officially living together. It'll mean more that way I think.
2006-06-20 07:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with them first because if you decide to get married you at least have a better idea of how you guys get along...if you get married first and decide to move out then that can become a hassle. It is simpler to move in first.
2006-06-20 08:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would live with them first to make sure we get along but they say there is a higher divorce rate if you move in together first.
2006-06-20 07:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and than live together.
2006-06-21 09:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by X P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.
Dating should be with intension to get married. (it will help you see whether or not you want to further the relationship.
Marraige is for life.
If it is not. don't even date.
someone will get hurt.
time and time again, my co-worker is in a situation that last months of pain.
So if you fall in love...Use your senses to see if you want marraige....
2006-06-20 08:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by designer401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live with each other first and find out if y'all get along and decide from there
2006-06-20 08:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by nadesha k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋