2006-06-20 07:48:53 · 22 answers · asked by jamie5511 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess that's the beauty of life. Up and Down, black and white, leaft and right.....in the relationship, men mostly just want sex, while women want romance. Men just want to make love, while women want to be spoiled and treated specially...dinner with candles, surprises, flowers, morning kisses, hugs from behind...etc etc...
This is the law God created. I guess this is very natural. God created this law for some reasons. Men, have to learn in their lives, that sex is not everything. On the other hand, women, have to learn that to have a successful relationship and mantain the intimacy, romantic stuff or so isnt enough.
People should make an effort to get what he/she wants. Men have to learn to know what women want: romantic stuff, women should also learn to know how to make men happy: well.... sex. So every gain we make comes from the pain---trust me, if everything were so effortless, the world would just be a boring place. the point is....take and give. it's balanced.
If men and women had the same amount of interest in sex....well there would be no such thing as marriage........
in conclusion, i think i can describe the table of interest of men and women here:
Men: 70% sex-----30% romantic stuff
Women:30% sex-----70% romanyic stuff
SEX + SEX = BORING LIFE, UNCONTROLED, TOO EASY, THE DESTRUCTION OF THE WORLD.
50% sex + 50% romantic stuff + EFFORT FROM BOTH SIDES =BEAUTIFUL LIFE, GREAT REALATIONSHIP, AND HAPPINESS.
2006-06-20 08:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Freedom yeah freedom 3 · 5⤊ 4⤋
It's a terrible problem I struggle with my husband. I know it has something to do with a drop in testosterone (a form of androgen in women). If you are on the pill, many birth control pills drop androgen levels way down, which lower sex drive. If you're not, like I am, levels can naturally drop in women. They are working on trying to fix it, but it's complicated, because many sex drive hormones are regulated by the thalamus, hypothalamus, and pitutary in the brain, and thyroid in the neck. Very difficult to target at this point, but they are trying. Let's hope they hurry up!!
2006-06-20 08:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Flairgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most kinds of birth control cause low libido, especially the shot Depo Pravera. Also hormonal imbalances can cause low libido, as well as depression, insecurity, trust issues, internal problems like infections, fibroids, tumors, etc. There are so many things! If the woman doesn't love the man she is with, this could be the problem as well.
2006-06-20 07:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not hitting the right spot it's very eazy to loose interest.
If you ejackulate early (most always) don't let her get to her point it's a turn off. Try differant positions ask her what she wants, you should beable to get both of yourselfs there at the same time.
2006-06-20 07:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women have hormonal imbalances which cause a low libido. Other women just get bored of sex - it really depends on the woman. Children/stress can be contributors to a low sex drive too.
2006-06-20 07:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men as will as women can tire of sex for awhile.
People need excitement, some new ways of doing the same
thing. Experiment with new things. You will never know what you really like if you do not try.
2006-06-20 07:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a problem similar to that. Sometimes we just have low sex drive or when we have kids and have all this stress and pressue. or we females connect our feeligns to when we are intimate vs guys, who dont always involve their feeligns when having relations. So if we have problems with our partners it reflects alot in other areas of our lives.
2006-06-20 07:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some women have issues with their self image and it takes alot of patience and emotional energy to have sex. Alot of people think making love is purely physical it is also mental. Some women can't because of medical reasons and its not that they don't want to. For some women sex is purely frustration.
2006-06-20 07:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have got what they want now and dont feel that they need to use sex as a tool any more, or because they are bored of the realationship?
2006-06-20 07:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase they got what they want:
1. Security
2. Money
3. Control
2006-06-20 07:50:38 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋