my boy friend is leaveing for the army in one week for basic training. hes going half way around the world and he wont be back for 3 1/2 months. we have been dateing for 3 months and we are really close but we have our fights like every one else. my question is should i stay with im all the way or should i break up with him till he gets back? please help
2006-06-20 07:27:57 · 20 answers · asked by howdy19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you enjoy your relationship with this guy? Stay with him, whats the point of breaking up now if you want to get back together when he returns. You love him stay with him. Being away from each other in terms of distance may teach you and him some life lessons, that may be crucial to the future.
2006-06-20 07:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should stay with him cause this is the time that he needs you the most i think that you need to wait for him when he comes back he will be a change man trust me i know cause my brother was in iraq for 3 yrs in a row when he got back his wife left him for another man cause he is never home this is what i think he not hjome cause he is fighting for our freedom so he come on leave for 2 monthes then he went back to iraq for another 1 yr so he is over there as of right now so pls stay with him
2006-06-20 14:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by cnalittlebit2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up.
after Basic and AIT he will get some leave...he'll come back lighter and bald...
if stationed stateside he may check directly into his unit and not come back at all.
After his leave...if he's combat arms...he may come over seas...
in which case he may be gone more than a year.
It's only been three months for you two...
If it was meant to be, you can reconnect later.
2006-06-20 14:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should agree to have either an open relationship or remain close friends until he gets back. After basic he'll get stationed somewhere and you never know if he will be able to choose where he goes or gets put somewhere.
2006-06-20 14:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cantrelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how strong your feelings are for him. If you think you might be in love, then stay with him. Have a good talk with him and see how he feels about it as that would be the best thing to do.
2006-06-20 14:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have to even ask that question you should do him a favor and leave him......if your with someone because you love them you would stick by them and be there for them when they get back....three months is not that long of a time, but its obvious to me you don't love him.....otherwise you'd never have to ask people if you should leave him because he's going in the army....its actually sad you'd consider leaving him for that reason.....let him go....im sure he'll find someone who will be there for him through thick and thin......not to mention it gets worse than basic training....what happens when he has to go to Iraq for months at a time.....maybe even a year or so....how are you going to handle it then?......do him a favor.....let him find someone who will stick with him and be there for him through the hard times...your not the girl.
2006-06-20 14:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how strong your relationship is, Do you feel he is worth the wait. My boyfriend is in the Army and he is in Germany right now for three months, I love him so I am waiting!!
2006-06-20 14:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sabrina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think there could be something there than stay but if you think its one of those you 're great but not for me Don't waist his time or yours and give him and your self permission to look else where for a relationship.
2006-06-20 14:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 3 months is a short time...you can spend your time learning something while he's gone. Dive into karate or get into tennis..Again 3 months is a short time you shouldn't be fighting yet.
2006-06-20 14:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Farrah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask, you already know your answer. Break up with him before he leaves so he can be free to fool around while he's gone!
2006-06-20 14:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋