I used to go with this guy, but he brok up with me to be with another girl Cuz i coldn't really be in the relationship he wanted , so we still talk and i told him that i did luv him and he said he did to but we just couldn't go no where in there of relationship but he told me he luved me when he was already with his new girlfriend.... No the thing he kept lieing to me about his new girlfriend he told he didn't have one and then then weren't really together.... ETC... What i'm wondering is Y? Y did he lie about it?I dont get it
2006-06-20 07:24:56 · 4 answers · asked by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry about the spelling i was typing to fast
2006-06-20 07:26:09 · update #1
i have had this happen to me, and since you had the same thing, no one answers an important ? i will answer yours. he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. he cares about you, but more about himself. he knows he has feelings for you, and wants you in his life, but does not respect you enough to make you only his. whatever lifestyle he wants and you dont, its not worth the compromise. trust me, i've been there. hope this helps
-almost a swinger thanks to ex freak!
2006-06-20 08:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rhonda S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he didn't think things through carefully, that he got involved with the other girl too fast (hormones?), and wants to keep his options open in case it doesn't work out with her.
It sounds to me like you never went all the way with him, and it may be that he loves you, but wants 'it', and he's getting 'it' from her...
Either way, he has a LOT of explaining to do. Find out why he lied to you, if it isn't a REALLY good reason and he can't come up with a good plan for avoiding that in the future (as well as not cheating on you), treat yourself with respect and find better company.
2006-06-20 14:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most man say that they lie because they don't want to hurt you.i was with this boy and he use to lie to me then one day he told me the Truth about everything it hurt more when he told the truth. I don't no why its just life
2006-06-20 14:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by ikeem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he wanted to check that which one of you(you and the other girl) would give him what he wants. Since you didn't succumb to him, he went for the other one.
2006-06-20 14:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋