Why do some Men prefer to be alone?

Question

I had post this becasue I answered a qurstion to a post that I don;t hate women, I just prefer to be alone. I am not Gay either. I just do not like women for reltionships period. I am healthier without their headaches to tend with,.

Answer 1

Because love hurts. It takes lots of work and effort and yes, headaches and looooaaads of heartache. That's just how love is... if you choose to pursue it, take it with a grain of salt, because your end result just may be worth it.

Answer 2

I am like that too. I live alone. I love the girls but I just prefer 2 live alone with my computer, home theatre system, basketball, 52" plasma screen(What more do a guy need) When I get in the mood I call over any sexy, young babe ( all of the girls I talk 2 are sexy young babes ) that I can persuade 2 come over & we hang doing whatever. Have sex, watch movies, go 2 the cinema, whatever we want to do. After, she goes home. No hassles, no heartbreaks, no jealousies. If in the future a girl spins my head enough I may get back stupid & go back 2 the ball & chain. (Dont laugh, there are some dam fine-looking girls out there.) But right now I totally enjoy life this way. Quite a change from when I had a steady girl & all the worries in the world.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with being alone. I've been alone a great part of my life and have no regrets. However, if you find a good relationship, there is just nothing in the world better than that...at least in my humble opinion. The happiest people I know are those who have good long term relationships. That being said, I'd rather be alone than in a bad relationship (and we all know there are lots of them!). There are some men and women who are just completely content being alone and there is nothing at all wrong with that! Some have little or no interest in sex, some (like me!) have lots of interest in sex but see no shame in frequent masturbation when we don't have a partner. I really don't like to hear people say "women are no good" or "men are no good", "that's why I'm alone!"...it frequently indicates that they just don't have the ability to get along with the other sex and says much more about them than their ex partners in fact...and yet as I said there is just nothing wrong with being alone if that's what you choose to do! Hope this makes sense!

Answer 4

I like to be alone maybe half the time. I can really relate to what the guy is saying though.

Mostly, women are mean, unreasonable (change their minds all the time), complain about everything constantly, spend too much on useless things then complain about money, always worry about being fat, always worry about hair and being pretty enough, also, they pick jerks then complain about men instead of picking nice men. I could list 100 more things.

That said, I think women are SEXY and I really like to be in bed with them. I often wish I didn't feel that way. Some weomen are really ok mostly some of the time anyway.

Answer 5

Why do some Men prefer to be alone?

Because too many expect to be catered to. (The "I'm SO special" syndrome)

Because men generally (accent graaave on GENERALLY) are not nearly as petulant as women are and must be.

Because solitude leads to ( gasp ! ) reflection, maybe insight, quien sabe ?.

Try to do THAT with an compulsive kvetching wife / gf about feelings, imaginary troubles and on and on ad nauseam.

Of course solitude too, can be overdone.



This from a very happily married man, remembering "past pain".

Answer 6

Women ROCK There are some sick bitches that answered this question.. I am worried about the state of America. Wasnt yo mamma a woman? You just havent found a good one yet. People steriotype women as annoying but I think that they see themselves as annoying and they do not like looking at there own issues. Go to college and find some beautiful, intelligent, self sufficent women who need some sexual comforting, no headaches there!

Answer 7

Because women require too much for the little we (men) want. A meal here and there, head, sex, and quiet time. They're basically prostitutes without being on the corner. Why is it that they think P costs but D is free? F them, I can buy P for as little as 50 bucks without the headache. F them.

Answer 8

50% of men have one of two different kinds of locus of control. Others don´t have a locus of control at all, specially because of their affectionate and kind nature and evolutionary aspects of personality. An internal locus of control is tender yet elusive, an external locus of control is secretive and lone. Loneliness is due to excess energy being pulled out of their sexual systems by stems and female secretions in search of control and attention. It is to acquire control of stamina and elude secretiveness and outside control, overly feminine. They will also conclude loneliness is to avoid trauma or kindness.
other form of loneliness is to think over friendships and future events of life, dismissing adventures.
Lone states are dismissed with sensous demeanor by partner or proper friendships, without secluding or demanding characters, they will say it.

Answer 9

speak for your self homie I am a man who loves being in the company of a hottie like my girlfriend. and men can be just as big of a headache as women.the three biggest problems women have begin with MEN. MENopause,MENstral cramps,MENtal illness get it amigo.

Answer 10

I hate to tell you guys, but there's a few women out there that feel the same way. This isn't exclusive to the male gender.