She drinks & uses drugs. She is about 6 or 7 months along. What should I do? I love her so much that I look the other way when she does these horrible things to herself. Is an abortion still an option when someone is 8 months along?
2006-06-20 07:04:54 · 29 answers · asked by snowy dragon 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
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2006-06-21 20:52:04 · update #1
Why did I loose my baby and this woman can have hers? This is what I ask myself when I see questions on here like this. Seems unfair to all of the women who have had miscarriages of very much wanted children. This makes me completely sick! Why would god pick her to be a mother over me or anyone else that has lost a child they wanted? Take the child from her... She doesn't deserve him/her. If you do love her even though she is trying to kill your unborn child , than you should have her committed. You could take care of the child until she proved she is capable. Find some pictures of children born on drugs and has many health problems and birth defects... I'm sure that will make her think twice before doing drugs. If it doesn't, than you should do as I suggested. How old is this girl? If you or she has any family that can help you get them involved. You shouldn't have to go through this by yourself. I'm glad to see your are trying to step in the right direction. I hope everything works out for you and you have a healthy happy baby. I will say a prayer that everything turns out well.
2006-06-20 08:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Pren 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Hitting herself? probable no longer some thing. counting on how early she is... the toddler continues to be secure by ability of the pubic bone. or maybe later toddler's are o.k. secure, I doubt the stress of hitting your self would do too a lot. yet nevertheless - for sure she has subject matters of a few variety. And would not desire to be having a baby if she's hitting *herself* in the tummy. Please get her some help. Does she even understand if she's actually pregnant? Do what you may to calm her down... in case you're nevertheless in college you may rfile her to a counselor, yet i'd confront her about this conventional. Going in the back of her again ought to o.k. damage your friendship.
2016-10-14 08:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible... What type of drugs is she using? You should talk to someone about this issue because this is out of control. She is too far along to be hitting herserlf in the stomach. Are you going to stay with this girl after the baby is born ? Think about your child it is too late for an abortion she is about to have the baby plus why didn't she think of that earlier in the pregnancy? I am no one to judge but dang what if the baby comes out with all types of problems you really need to talk to a case worker or someone on her behalf this baby may need a good foster home because it is obvious she isn't ready to handle a newborn.
2006-06-20 07:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should love your child enough to not look the other way when she does these things. Who cares how much you love her...that child should come first!
Get her help.She is probably scared and confused. Seek serious medical help.
Let the doctors know what is going on.
Any legitimate place would not do an abortion at this far along of course not.
But there are a lot of people out there that will take care of and love this baby.
2006-06-20 07:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is a PSYCHO!! She might as well have an abortion or give it up for adoption when she has the baby. Abortion is no longer an option. She should've had an abortion about 3 months along. When she has the baby, I wouldn't be surprised if the baby is metally retarded or has physical problems. I would take her to rehab. Don't keep the kid. Put it up for adoption because he or she will constantly remind you of what she did.
2006-06-20 08:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is an abortion still an option when someone is 8 months along? WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT. wow! I think it's a woman's choice but that baby can be delivered now and it's chances of living is like 99%. This is YOUR baby too! You may love her but blood is thicker than water! Your child is your blood, your girl is water!..... Your crazy for looking the other way. She's completely out of her mind to do that to that poor baby. In my opinion, neither one of you deserve this precious child. And when the baby is born and they drug test her, ya'll's prolly going to lose the baby anyways, but if not, I suggest you all give this baby up for adoption, neither one of ya'll care anyways so let this baby be with someone that will love and take care of it.
2006-06-20 07:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by lil_gabby_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you cannot have an abortion when you are that far along. I think the cut off is around 4-5 months. Take her to see a therapist or a doctor or someone. Maybe her parents or a friend can sit her down and talk to her.
2006-06-20 07:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by Shqiptare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean or anything but it sounds like u need to with her to the doctor and talk to the Dr about what she is doing..and for one if you dont do drugs then u might need to seek legal advice to get the baby because when u have a baby they do a drug and alcohol test when having a baby. And the hospital has to call the Family Services in if they find drugs in her system..And the state will take the baby. So please seek cosultation with an Attorney about possibly you getting the baby when born..And hopefully getting her some help...And you say that you love her so you look the other way..You might want to start looking her way! Because if you love her and love your unborn child then you need to take action..Because your baby doesnt deserve to be born and possibly start life out bad.(if she does drugs your baby might have to go thru with drawls and that is not fair to that baby) you should really check out web sites and ask your g.f.'s obgyn about what the side effects could be with your baby...So if you do love her then it is time to stand up for your unborn child.
2006-06-20 07:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by wanda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No abortion is NOT an option...if she has been using/drinking the whole pregnancy, the baby will most likely be born with defects (major) and addicted to drugs. It sounds like you are not fit parents. I strongly encourage you to put this poor child up for adoption as soon as it is born, if it is even alive...if you don't, this girlfriend of yours sounds like she may take the child's life herself! Use a condom next time!!!
2006-06-20 07:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if she killes it herself most doctors wont abort a child that it that far along cause the baby is fully developed and full grown for a baby i mean. and ya know ppl like her need to be killed cause thay wanna spread there F*UCKING legs and dont want the responsabilty that comes with it. ppl like ur friend theres not much u can do to help them type of ppl. cause thay are gonna do what thay want to do cause thay think its there body when it is not there body once thay take on another life into there body. and the baby may not live she may end up with a still birth. i have known ppl to do what ur friend is doing and thay ended up with still birth and some ended up with babys that where perapoligics when thay where born so all kids of things can happen all you can do is try to explane to her what she is doing to her baby but i doubt it will help that baby already has so many problems and will have many more problems to come just with her doing drugs and drinking. cause my mom did drugs and alcohal when she was pregnant with me and i have problems all the time and still to this day cause of her. i have memorie loss and adhd and other health problems it made it very hard for me to learn as child i was always being held back and stuff and because of it all. i only learn at a 2nd grade level. and droped out in the 8th grade cause i couldent take all the torchering by all the other kids cause thay all thought i was stupid. so just explane to her what she is doing to that poor babys and may GOD BLESS that baby and help it into this world with no problems and that it will be okay. but most babys in her case will be beaten by her mother everyday of her life
2006-06-20 07:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋