i mean people just hate me i dont know y & im bein nicer im not a dork im not ugly and i care about other people and now i dont think i can trust my closs freinds any more and im not really popular or a noboddy! please help and dont send me cocky letters about u not carin or wat u think i am.
2006-06-20 06:58:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be yourself and be nicer if your not nice now.
2006-06-20 07:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like now is the time in your life when you need to get involved in activities outside of your social group. Find a class to take, join a library book club, join a local group who likes to play the same sport you do---many of these activities are offered for free or for little cost in most communities. When you are busy and having fun, you won't have time to worry about what everyone else thinks about you. Plus, it's these new experiences that will widen the number of people you meet so you can make new friends.
2006-07-03 14:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k. maybe you should try to be funnier, just try to make friends and dont talk badly bout any1 and if no1 wants 2 b ur friend thn ther not good enough for u. Also tell ur other close friends that u think they dont like u and if they say they dont like u, ask them y and ask ur close friends y every1 h8s u.
Hope u get some more friends! (Dont be cocky!)
2006-07-04 11:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by sophia j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. frankly speaking, i think the problems is , you look down on yourself, you feel you are not worth it, you think people hate you but the truth is you have to se things differently. See yourself as someone important, see yourself as someone nice, see yourself as someone everyone would be eager to meet... Also see people being nice to you, see yourself having a nice relationship with friends...
Just basically change the way you see things, and start viewing things positively. then people would respond to you cos
" What you see, is what you would get"
2006-06-20 14:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Amama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have a positive approach in life and try to regain your lost self confidence. If you care about others there is no way that others can be bad to you and if they really are they are not worth being friends. You should not loose your self esteem.
2006-07-04 12:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by sacredlovingheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are sometimes mean, but not all people are mean. I find it hard to believe that every single person you meet or see, or answers your questions are mean. It sounds to me like you live in a pity party of "poor ole me" and need to get a life.
2006-07-02 06:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by GOUTVOLS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just havent found the right group of ppl who actually understand u
maybe u just dnt fit in with the ppl ur hangin with
if their stuck up and mean all the time
f.u.c.k them... get some new friends
be who u r
love always
jess
stonehamjessica@yahoo.com
2006-06-20 14:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question: Am I nice to people?
1) If the answer is "yes", then people will be nice to you.
2)If your answer is "I don't know", then ask yourself how can you be nice to others.
3)If you answer is "no", then why would people be nice to you if you are not nice to them in the first place.
2006-07-03 18:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by h2o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omfg, this is happening to me 2. i think its cuz ur changing, and i u REaly want to stay friends try ur best to act like u used to before. but if ur changing for the best, try finding a new group of friends that appreciate u.
2006-07-04 12:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by ojndoanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think that the problem is that maybe you are too nice too others,and probably care more about others that bout yourself. Try, balancing both and maybee it'll change.
2006-06-20 14:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by sharky408 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋