2006-06-20 06:55:23 · 19 answers · asked by shfkabrahams 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
Well it really depends on your realtionship and age. I did it and now have been married to him for 19 years. Great love! It worked for me. You must make your own decision and do it wisely.
2006-06-20 06:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by justswimmin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so sure that would be a smart move after all you have only known him for six monthss.....thats not a very long time...and you know yourself....people are on their best behavior when first dating...I would observe him more carefully I would watch the way he behaves around other people. I would watch for moodiness...which is not the best of traits.... I would wathc to see what makes him upset and how he handles things. Do you or have you noticed his spending habits or not spending habits...I am sure you are in love and all that is very wonderful and exciting...but perhaps you should be with him as much as you can without living with him...so that you can try to look over and above all the love that you feel for him and really see and really look at him....because if you move in and things dont work out it could be a very costly...never mind devestating mistake..... Just trying to help...and if you decide to move in that is ok too if that is what you truly would like to try.....just wanted to make you more aware of who you might be moving in with and what is he really like. I know this sounds like maybe you should so that you can really observe hime and his habits.... Simply think alot about it and Good Luck I wish you the best for you love and light mo
2006-06-20 14:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by rosepetals 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months is a very short time but then again you will find out how much you truly like him or dislike him. All those habits you never knew he had or how much mommy really did for him. Remember to use good protection though sometimes those move in things can make you forget. You do not want to have to share your whole life with him if you get pregnant and then realize the boy does not know how to use a hamper.
2006-06-20 15:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, relationships should take 2 years to develop. If you live together, it won't develop properly. Why 2 years? THe first year we are ALL on our best behavior and learning the other person's idyosyncrises, habits, likes/dislikes, etc. You have to be happy with their friends and family, that usually takes a year to meet them all. THe second year, is the, "Can I live with this person and what they're like now?" You CANNOT change people! You can help them grow and suggest new ways of doing things, but you will never be able to change someone's personality.
THe second year brings you closer together or further apart. THey must be your best friend by the end of this year or forget it.
Don't move it yet...you'll regret it.
2006-06-20 14:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a very bad idea. Personally, I think it's only smart to move in with a guy once you're married. Anyway, five months is too short of a time to really know him well, EVEN if you think you do. Also, I can picture a court case over this in the near future for you if you move in together.
2006-06-20 14:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Pearl Prynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ! You really need to get to known this person alot better..Of course you never really known a person If. he cares for you he will wait for you till you are ready to move in.Is it your idea or his? Make sure he doesn't want your money.I understand that you can share living expenses...All in all in you need to get as much info on him as possible
2006-06-22 14:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Snow over honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You shouldn't live with someone unless you are married. Statistics show that couples who live together before marriage's relationships do not last as long as those who don't.
2006-06-20 21:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by harpgirl88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....are you both financially stable enough that if something were to happen, you could live on your own as well....I think it's okae, just don't start adding names to bank accounts and all that just yet...keep your finances as separate as possible without being greedy....pay for your own car and such.
2006-06-20 13:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get married to him, move in.
If you want to get married, don't move in and make him marry you if he wants to live with you. it'll work itself out.
That's in general. Really it depends. Good luck, watch out for common law.
2006-06-20 14:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by truthyness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, it's probably not a good idea. Trust your instincts.
2006-06-20 13:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋