Suppose you have a relationship, and everything seems to go along well. but one day, your partner gets involved in an unvoluntary accident causing him/her a serious memory loss. your partner doesn't know who you are anymore...
what would you do?
how would you take it?
2006-06-20 06:43:05 · 9 answers · asked by kaydub2006 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
Stay with them and be kind and gentle. Is the memory loss permanent? Often, memories can be recovered, it just takes time. The most important thing you can do is to be supportive and take one day at a time. If they reject you completely, then take a step back and carry on....remember in this case it is nothing you did wrong. My wife developed Schizophrenia 14 years ago, and it is similar in that she stopped considering me her Husband. I was left with a 4 year old child to raise on my own, so I focused on his needs as they were far more important at the time. My wife went back to her home country where her family is and her medical system is doing a better job than ours to care for her. I still love her, and I still mourn the loss of our relationship, as it essentially ended by her hand, so what could I do? Move forward, not back and tried not to blame myself or her as it was nobodies fault.
2006-06-20 06:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stick by him for as long as it took to regain his memory. I would show him pictures and tell him stories of our past to help jog something in his mind. But I know I would never leave him.
2006-06-20 13:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him enough I would stick by him and show him picks of both of you. Maybe that will help his memory. First impressions are everything. Give him time. Be there for him.
2006-06-20 13:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by mackey208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely feel bad..I would go and try to talk to my lover, saying who I am, using pictures of things we have done together and places we have been to.
I would dedicate my self into getting things as close to normal as possible.
2006-06-20 13:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Nostromo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that would have happened to me i believe i would take it very hard but then i'd also take it 1 day at a time if i loved my loved one and work with them showing pictures of us together and such.good luck
2006-06-20 13:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with him or her. Memory loss is usually temporary. If you leave, he or she will be very hurt when they regain their memory.
2006-06-20 13:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by lj1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help them learn all over again if they forgot all that don't force them to remember you just try to make them build there personality again you can make them to be a perfect person and try to Winn them all over again. y not!?
2006-06-20 13:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do like in the movie "the Notebook"..... I cry and think about that every time i watch it.......
2006-06-20 14:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her she used to like anal, and should try it again
2006-06-20 13:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by ricgrif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋