I know several pple that are involved in a relationship but flirt with others via txt mssg on cell phone or on mssg. They said they were just in it for fun......what do you think?
2006-06-20 06:33:13 · 19 answers · asked by caramelqueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They can try and candy coat their behavior all they want by saying its just for fun, but, in all reality its a form of cheating, and disrespect to their significant other. I really wish people would grow up!
2006-06-20 06:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well many may say it is only 4 fun but many are down playing their part. Is it any different from going out and flirting at a bar or a club even if you do not plan on cheating?
Many relationships have suffered from these so-called harmless acts. If it is harmless why din't they tell the person they are with?
2006-06-20 13:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by drafting20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the people involved. If its all for fun, I see no problem with it. I do it occasionally and I am in a relationship. I know my limits and have to intentions of meeting these people. To me its just for fun. Whatever you do, BE CAREFUL!!
2006-06-20 13:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because innocent flirt can lead to developing feelings and ideas about other person that your significant might be missing from your relationship.
2006-06-20 13:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it means that they are not completely interested in their relationship. because if they really loved the people they were with, they wouldnt want to flirt with other people. thats just not the way it works. they may say they love the person their with, but really they are just a little bit more iterested in them then in the people they flirt with on phones.
2006-06-20 13:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by efraevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no excuse it's still flirting.. come on now-- In my opinion marriage is to someone you love and can't be without.. I guess I'm crazy I just don't want to flirt with anyone wheather it be text messaging or on the computer because I love my husband and there is no reason to..
2006-06-20 13:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just for fun and its harmless. Unless of course they take it to the next step. A bad idea.
2006-06-20 13:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just plain fun, it's not like their gonna meet and act on the words they send each other.
2006-06-20 14:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by jamaican girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just for fun... like some people flirt with people at work... its normal.
2006-06-20 13:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by trudie_barraza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personaly I think thats wrong.
2006-06-20 13:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋