how do i find out? i didn't want to,but my bf forced me and i had to.he is 19 and im 16 and im afraid that he will leave me like my ex-bf did when i was pregnant. will i suffer again cause of stupid guys begging to use the dick?
2006-06-20 06:16:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Where was the birth control? If he forced you then that is not the type of guy you need to be with and you need to leave him before you get pregnant. You will be better off
2006-06-20 06:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by callalobo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only person with power here is you. You need to realize that you are worth far more than any guy telling you he is going to leave you if you dont let him have sex with you. If he is saying those kinds of things, then it really is not love at all.....
If you think your pregnant you can either go get a cheap over the counter pregnancy test or call your local crisis pregnancy center. I would take some time to seriously evaluate what you are doing with your life----while you are only 16, the decisions you make today are going to effect you for the rest of your life.
2006-06-20 13:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know they have been telling u about the test thing so i'm not going to tell u about something that u already then been told about but i think that u should take care of the one that u have the best why u can in if you r pregnant in u think & feel that the baby was not meet for u to have then give the baby up but i would stop going with dick head in go on with my life don't pay no mind to GMAN the one was said that it was your fought it's not now it's your chooes to have the baby or not i wish u the best n life & yours
2006-06-20 14:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.sherman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he forced you into sex, honey, that is RAPE, and you don'thave to stand for that. File charges. Secondly, if these guys take off when you are preg, and they just want sex. Maybe you need to re-examine the guy you go out with. It's not all about sex dear. Look for someone worth having. Also, the guy you are currently dating is a loser, he probably saw your kid and thought you were easy,so of course he presured you into it. Many jerk think if a girl has a baby she'll spread her legs for any guy. Take some time off of men and concentrate on your children, and raising them. If a daddy is out there for them, he'll come around when you least expect it.
Stay Strong and good luck.
2006-06-20 13:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you would suffer. You can always give the baby up for adoption. If he leaves you then he wasn't good enough for you anyway. Next time you take the precaution. If you are gonna have sex then go on birth control. If you don't want your parents to find out then go to planned parenthood. You are going to need to grow up a little though. You have one baby that needs you to be an adult even if you "didn't want to"
2006-06-20 13:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by JennyWho? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF are you doing having sex with anyone? You're f***ing 16! This guy may have forced you, but you share the fault, because you shouldn't be having a 19 year old boy friend in the first place! As for the kid, if you are pregnant, don't keep the baby. It will be better off without having to deal with its 16 year old mom, baby sister and his mom's way older boyfriends who "force" her to have sex and will dump her if she doesn't. You shouldn't give a f*** if they dump you. You need to dump them and get your head screwed back on straight this time.
2006-06-20 13:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by sothisislife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can usually go to your nearest Prenatal center/Health Clinic and get a free pregnancy test. I would look up your local clinic in the phonebook. If you don't want to do that, there is pregnancy tests that you can buy at your local store. BTW: Your Bf shouldn't have forced you to have sex with him. If you said no and he still had sex with you, then that means it was rape, and you should turn him in. Love shouldn't be forced.
2006-06-20 13:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by mrhpotter7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The responsibility for your own body is all yours. Why are you allowing someone else to use it and make the decisions for it? It would probably be easier to get pregnant when you have been there before....there are tests to releive your mind. If you are allowing sex to be the criteria for your b/f to stay...you better realize that there comes a time when that is no longer even possible...what will you have then?
2006-06-20 13:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a home test. Get on birth control immediately after you pop this one out. Stop having sex, concentrate on your kids. I saw from your other questions you like to have "cyber sex". That's safer, and honestly, you don't seem mature enough to parent.
2006-06-20 13:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a pregnancy test tool you can buy in pharmacy. But seriously, you should take care of yourself and make sure whoever you have sex use condom. Having babies are good thing only if you are up for it and can take care of it. Otherwise, sorry to say but it is your own fault.
2006-06-20 13:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by gman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋