My wife has some female problems and has told me its ok to sleep around just use a condom.?

Question

I cant do that. But why would she want me to do that. what is she thinking?

Answer 1

She feels bad about not being able to perform for you. But if you actually did sleep with someone else, she'd never forgive you. It's a tough one. Go with her to her doctor.

Answer 2

Are you sure it's some female problems? What if it was some kind of STD? Maybe you should do a little research because I couldn't see anyone in there right mind telling you something crazy like that. Adultery is Adultery no matter how you look at it and I am glad you aren't up for it. The only way you are going to get to the bottom of things is by investigating, unless you are being discreet in your question and already know for sure what her female problem is, if not again I say investigate.

Answer 3

i see two things.

1) The worst your woman is cheating on you and to make her not feel so bad she has allowed you to sleep around, possibly a breakup in the future.

2) It is a way to test your love. If you love your wife and cherish you marriage you'd best yourself by staying faithful and proving yourself committed.

I personally believe if you can not find sexual happiness with the one woman you have vowed before God to be with then it is time to move on to bigger and better things. I hope all fares well for you.

Answer 4

If she's having female problems, she's having hormonal problems which means she's not thinking clearly. Think PMS in overdrive. Her reasoning may be that if she tells you it's ok to sleep around then it's not actually cheating.
But deep down, I can guarantee you that she doesn't really want you to do it.

Answer 5

She is probably feeling insecure and worried. Usually when women have female problems, they also don't get in the mood very often. (It's not you, its the hormones.) Your wife may just be feeling worried because she is afraid you are getting frustrated or she may be thinking that's what you wanted her to say. I'm very sure she really doesn't want you to do it. Good luck.

Answer 6

Bottom line is that she feels less emotionally connected to you to the point she doesn't care if you sleep around.

Either she's cheating, thinks you are cheating or is depressed. According to an article I read, cheating wives tend show an increased interest in sex. Depressed wives show no interest.

Either way, call her bluff and push her to tell you what's really wrong. Get marriage counseling if neccessary.

Answer 7

If your wife is having health problems and can't sleep with you, you should be supportive and not sleep around regardless if she said it was o.k. When you two said your vows you said in sickness and health.................stick with it. You need to tell her you would never do that and make her feel better, right now she probably feels like she is less of a woman because she can't satisfy you, reassure her that you love her and would never do that!!!

Answer 8

EITHER SHE IS CHEATING OR SHE WANTS SOME SUPPORT AND COMPASSION. Now is the time to either leave her if she is cheating(telling you to sleep with someone else is a sign of cheating) or she is going through a medically terrible time and needs you to be there for her(as she has probably been there for you in past). Can't help you on which one.

Answer 9

She's cheating or is planning to. She doesn't want to feel so guilty by having fun and not letting you have some fun as well.

Check her out you might be surprise at what you find out. If that's the case, both go your separate ways, Good Luck!

Answer 10

Be cautious. She maybe feeling unattractive and not sexual at all. Her head is saying that it is logical that you will need some action and she can not give that to you, but her heart, when and if you choose to act upon this, will never be able to trust you again. We are a crazy breed. Best wishes......