well my friend told me to tell her boyfriend some things for her. & being a good friend I did. Then she goes I didnt say to say tht! (part of the convo) and I was yes u did!! and I copied and pasted to show her she did and shes like yeah dont ever freakin talk to me ever again. so now she hates me and prob got her bf to do the same. Then in her away message it says 'Its sad tht u beleived someone elses word over mine' to her boyfriend. But she did say it!! & ive just been crying its just ugh! ive had a really bad day! I just want to get away,move or something! I cant deal with it! any advice? =]]
2006-06-20 06:14:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hey girl,
Just take a deep breath. It will be OK. You didn't state your age but it really doesn't matter because teen girls have a history of this behavior. Not all of them, of course, but there are some.
Wait it out. She will figure it all out and hopefully come to her senses and apologize to you. It sounds like she was having bf probs and took it out on you. You were just being a good friend and she'll recognize that.
As for next time someone asks you to do something like that, think it over carefully and make the best choice for YOU.
Take care--
2006-06-20 06:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself fortunate she's not your friend anymore. It's obvious she was up to something and wanted you to take the fall for her. Forget about it and move on. Don't remain friends with the bf either. That will just be a whole different set of problems you don't want to deal with.
2006-06-20 06:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always best not to get involved in the "John and Priscilla" soap opera....my daughter did that once and she got caught in the middle of it...I told her to just let it go ..and when both these people are ready to talk again ...then she could clear the air...but until then...its best just to leave it alone..Dont cry sweetie...youre intentions were from the Heart...youre friend is not a true friend ...she used you and when it blew up in her face she blames you now...so just let it go...and go with ur other friends...LEARN FROM THIS....
2006-06-20 06:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by celine8388 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And what did you learn? NEVER, NEVER, NEVER get between a friend and their boyfriend in any way, shape or form. If you do, be prepared to lose a couple of friends. If asked to say something, put it back on the requester. Relationships are two people...anyone else involved causes problems and hurt feelings.
2006-06-20 06:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you don't need a friend like that. If she can't tell her boyfriend what she asked you to tell him then she has no balls and was planning on using you as a scapegoat! don't cry over someone like her!
2006-06-20 06:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by ranger73102 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the girl has problems if she needs to ask you to talk to her boyfriend. the sad fact is that she probably wanted you to tell him to see what he says, or she was letting off some steam and didn't expect you to really tell him. either way, she'll calm down and apologize if she is really your friend. if not, her loss- move on with your life.
2006-06-20 06:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by me m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new friend...sounds like a looser to me! Not sure how someone can say to say something then make you look like a total ***....she has major issues to me. She needs to appologize to you so you can move on and get a new friend...remember she did it not you!
2006-06-20 06:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not a good friend. She should be able to tell her boyfriend the stuff she said.
2006-06-20 07:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you have the Convo make sure you save it and then if her boyfriend starts being a jerk to you them you can show it to him. your friend is being very immature. she'll get over it. I wouldn't worry about it to much.
2006-06-20 06:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say you are better off without the drama queen, it may be sad but there are much better people in the world to befriend. good luck to you
2006-06-27 02:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by mysticalflyingsquirrel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋