I have been married for almost 7 years. My hubby has gained a fair bit of weight since our wedding due to surgery 3 years ago. I have put on a few pounds myself (I've had 2 kids) but I'm told I still look good. We've had some problems. I work all day, he's stuck at home unable to work because of a perscription that has a side affect of diminished cognitive abilities (limited short term memory and concentration). He wasn't doing anything around the house to help out, but he is still a good father. I told him to help out, or get out. He's helped out a lot this past weekend. My problem is I feel very little for him emotionally. I care about him, but I have not interest in getting intimate with him. Until recently I had no such problems. Any one have any suggestions about getting it back or is it over for us?
2006-06-20 05:57:17 · 3 answers · asked by kirsty h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you say in your question that you "feel very little for him emotionally" why? is this because he has become ill or has the love just gone? you also say you've told him to "help out or get out" and that you "care" about him but have no interest sexually, have the "i love yous" all gone between you? if so i'm afraid your relationship with this man is over, make a decision and stick to it, if you feel this is really what you want. good luk to you
2006-06-20 06:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexercize
2006-06-20 13:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have to try and work this out together, If he is
on medication it takes time to get use to the side effects,
Just give him a little more time to adjust, if that don't work
then ltell him you are leaving him.
2006-06-20 13:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by aaakids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋