Ok my boyfriend and I have been together awhile, he has an infatuation with women, everytime he seens a woman he comments, he has loads of playboy in his closet and he is begging me to by girls gone wild DVD's, I find it disrespectful to me and Im very uncomfortable about it, I would never do that to him, I use to be an exotic dancer when we first met and I stopped dancing because he was uncomfortable with it so I felt it was the right thing to do.. But now he is obssessed with half naked women. what should I do???
2006-06-20 05:43:11 · 14 answers · asked by fred g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to him and let him know how you feel about his double standards. Let him know that you don't appreciate being disrespected and if he won't change, you can always leave and find a better guy that will show and give you the respect you deserve.
2006-06-20 05:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if this is what he is about then you don`t want nothing to do with it. And if he is still does it take a break for a few days. I mean just leave with no warning and go somewhere and check in to a hotel. Give him a few days too think and don`t contact him. Leave him guessing that will make him think about what he is doing. This happen to me. Teached me a lesson real quick!! Nothing worse than the one you love disappearing and not telling you where they are or where there going. If that doesn`t work get out fast he is not going to change. He needs to show a little more respect to you!!!
2006-06-20 12:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him now!!!!! You obviously care about him to give up dancing, but he doesn't care enough about you to stop looking at other girls. If he truly loved you and was completely satisfied by you he wouldn't need to look at other women. Run for the hills, you can do better.
2006-06-20 12:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are you satisfying him because if not maybe that is why he is seeking attention elsewhere. How ever if he has always been a horny person who likes looking at half naked girls then that’s just him personally.
As a guy as long as my girl is satisfying me I wouldn’t go buying porn and stuff but remember girls its ok to look just not ok to touch. lol
2006-06-20 12:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who are into porn are walking red flags. That he is more into this type of stuff than being "infatuated" with you should tell you that you matter less than his fantasy women.
Dump him and get a guy who cares about women as people and not sex objects.
2006-06-20 12:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by crazydogg_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel and make a night and dance for him like you used to dance for other men.
2006-06-20 12:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u got to leave the dude he does not respect u
2006-06-20 12:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Him... If he dosen't respect women now.. He wont respect YOU later... Red flag goes up with this one!!
2006-06-20 12:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by May 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him!!!!! it is very disrespectful for a man to look at other women . its not worth it leave him
2006-06-20 12:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the testosterone, hon. Let him know how you feel, and if he gives you crap about it, dump him. It isn't fare to you.
2006-06-20 12:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by silver2leaves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋