Would you send someone to spy on your spouse? Or would you send someone to tempt them to see if they would cheat on you? What do you think they would do? This is for men and women. I would do it to my husband.
2006-06-20 04:50:02 · 30 answers · asked by u_wish1205 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a stupid game, and you might give hubby some ideas.
Besides, what would it prove? Maybe the "temptress" was not attractive to him, or came on too strong? So he didn't boink her, does that mean he's faithful, or short on funds that week?
No. Absolutely not. I wouldn't, and I would be furious if she did it to me.
2006-06-20 05:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Grendle 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely send a spy to watch him, but I don't know about having someone tempt him I think I would accidentally kill her. I think the spy would even tell me more information then i Would want to know. I'd Rather not know if my husbands cheating but if it comes down to it i would definitely hire a spy.
2006-06-20 12:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Meggan D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship must be pretty bad to do that. If I ever got to the point where I was going to spy on my spouse I'd end the relationship because the trust is obviously gone.
2006-06-20 11:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by aqsgtriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother actually did this to his wife.
She turned the decoy down. She turned the next two decoys down also. He wasnt satifsied and did it again. Again she turned the decoy down. My brother was happy and thought he was going to married for the rest of his life.
Problem came in, when she found out. After she found out, she was so depressed, then angry, then she went out and got pregnant by her boss.
They are now divorced. All this happened within the first year of their marriage.
It is written not to tempt the LORD your GOD. The least we can do for our loved ones is not send additional tempations along with the ones that come our way.
The good news is, he did learn his lesson. He has remarried and there have been no attempts by him to lure his own wife away from him.
2006-06-20 12:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never send someone to spy or flirt with my wife. If I have gotten to that point in our relationship where I don't trust them, then we have a lot of problems to over come.
2006-06-20 12:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sending someone who you think would tempt him would do the trick. If he is cheating on her, chances are it's someone who is only attractive to him physically. So if he goes for the decoy, you've pretty much got him for possibly past affairs and you know that he would be willing to cheat if he goes for the temptress. I would do this if I was married and suspicious of cheating.
2006-06-20 11:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by L1\/3z F0r +3h R4\/3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my husband because i trust him from the bottom of my heart. I am not That shallow to do this to him... only those who do not fully trust their spouse will think of doing such a thing! With trust comes everything.... if you really love your spouse truly you do not need any sort of prove to test them or their intentions
2006-06-20 14:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only send someone to spy on my wife if i have a good reason or suspicion. I wouldn't do it if i didn't think something was going on. Who knows what they would do until they do it. She would probably get mad. Yes i would send somebody to temp her too.
2006-06-20 12:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by worldsbestbowhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why did you marry him, because you obviously don't seem to trust him, if your sending out spys and temptations towards him. You should not be in a marriage, because before you marry someone you have to trust them, love them and honor them.
2006-06-20 11:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you suspect that he is cheating. Don't do it just for the hell of it. I would hire a PI to do it though. I did, and found out the truth of what my husband was doing, it was well worth it cause I knew the truth and I was right.
2006-06-20 12:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Carolee C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. Why would I have someone in my life that I can't trust? I would not waste my hard earned money nor my brain cells to investigate someone I suppose to trust? Why would anyone go into a marriage having those type of feelings?
2006-06-20 12:05:10 · answer #11 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋