I know hes working but also I see him chatting too. I have a problem with him chatting with other girls because we met on line. We have been together for over a year and a half now, and live together, but there still is that part of me that gets mad because I know other girls flirt with him. Flirting bothers me because its a sign of no respect to the girlfriend, me. I don't flirt with other guys so other women shouldn't flirt with mine.
2006-06-20 04:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by kittenofevilness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is probably to tell u that u need to grow up and get a life of ur own, get a bf who u didn't meet over the internet that u can solely trust!
2006-06-20 04:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by zkimmy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Meeting "online" is not such a taboo anymore. It's more than just old people who are over the hill that meet nowadays. I know alot of people who have met through websites such as myspace who are my age, 19-25ish! There's no way to get over that jealousy feeling, especially if you are a jealous person. I'm sure you feel that since that is how the two of you met, it would be just as easy for him to meet someone else and possibly start something he shouldn't.
So yeah, the only way you can semi-resolve this issue is to talk to him. I'm sure he wouldn't want you talking to other guys, now would he. Men get just as jealous and sometimes the internet provides even more drama than a couple would need or ever want. Hope I helped! :)
2006-06-20 05:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by kaliraized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand how you feel. I have been in the same situation once before and, unfortunately, it did not turn out the way I wanted it to. (In other words, an affair occurred.) Whereas I do feel that a woman in any relationship should be able to trust her mate, I also feel that "red flags" (like the one you have descibed) should not be ignored. I think you should definitely talk with your boyfriend and let him know how uncomfortable you feel with him chatting online. Hopefully, and if he truly respects you, he will understand how you feel and put a stop to his behavior/actions.
2006-06-20 04:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by monogamyisgolden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can flirt all they want but its up to your bf to do the right thing. You cant control what other women do. If you dont like him chatting with the girls then he shouldn't do it.
2006-06-20 04:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel that you have him so i'm not going to let it bother me anymore. or Talk to him about how you feel about the other girls flirting with him. But it is not a sin to look at all. That means it ok for for you to talk and look at other guys also.
2006-06-20 04:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by cereal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman outside your relationship does NOT owe you anything. Your man owes you something. He is the one commited to you so if you have a problem with flirting you need to speak to him about it and how he deals with women trying to flirt with him.
2006-06-20 04:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is what builds up your confidence theres no harm behind it...But I bet if you stated flirting wit someone he would flip.
2006-06-20 05:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that way too. Just tell him it hurts you. Honesty is the best policy!
2006-06-20 04:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by heavensangel_0130 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are saying. you just need to tell him it bothers you. you are suppose to be commited to each other, that means no more looking for love.
2006-06-20 04:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by TKO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break his fingers, then you will have to type everything for him and he won't be chatting
2006-06-20 04:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mamadog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋