What do guys think when they see a pretty girl with 2 kids, an 8 year old adaughter and a 4 month old son at a mcdonalds or at a park, restaurant by herself with kids?? I am not single, but my boyfriend works 12 hours a day so i go out by myself a lot with my 2 kids and if the right guy comes up to me, I may dump the guy i am with . It probably looks like i am totally off the market and not approchable.
2006-06-20 04:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
everytime I bring up, that i am not happy with my current boyfriend, he says nOm you are staying..we can work it out but i feel i am a single mom with him working 12 hours a day, I'd rather find someone else.,
2006-06-20 04:56:48 · update #1
I do not look for guys when i am with my kids!!! I am just curious if they are looking at me and what they think???
2006-06-20 05:07:26 · update #2
I ask this question cuz I see people staring and i want to know what is going through their heads?! maybe you have done this to a woman with kids
2006-06-20 05:22:11 · update #3
Honestly, it depends on each individual man. Who they are with. I have seen men out in packs, like wolves, just waiting on this kind of situation, like you are their personal pray! Saying rude things as "mother want another". Then you have the quiet types, who murmur "God she should be the mother of my children". Personally, I would wait for the moment to arise and ask the beautiful lady such as yourself, in a polite kind of way, are you available? Then, if I find out more like I did reading you adds on to the question, that you are happy with him, and only upset because he works 12 hour a day. Well, if I had to work 22 hours to put food on the table for you and the children, and shoes on your feet, well I would, cause you look that good!! And I would try to enjoy every moment alone with you!!!!
2006-06-20 05:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by kendo2_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your 8 year old doesn't notice you looking around for guys when you're out with her? My god! You just had a baby with the guy you're with! Don't you know that the natural father is the best one to raise that child with you? HE'S the one who will love him and protect him his whole life.
Are you saying you would leave him just because some guy comes up to you in McDonalds??? Stop thinking about yourself and start thinking like a GOOD MOTHER. TRY your best to make your relationship WORK so that your 8 yr old doesn't have to go through the trauma of yet ANOTHER father figure!!!
2006-06-20 11:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by yorbalinda1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good guy the kids will be a blessing, as you are part of one whole. And if you feel that way aabout your current love, maybe you should let him go so you can both move on it's not fair to him.
2006-06-20 11:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by eg_ansel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make up your mind are you married or single. on your other questions you keep saying husband. now your saying boyfriend make up your mind
2006-06-21 16:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that unhappy? If you can work it out do. See a councilor. are you still in love?
2006-06-21 15:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by beanietara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋