Is it wrong to look at another woman while out with your wife in public?

Question

While out with my wife, I have occassionally been caught gazing upon another attractive woman. Is it wrong to find someone else attractive or just admire someone's legs?

Answer 1

Ask yourself how you would feel if your wife was admiring the bulge in another mans pants while out with you. It is not wrong to LOOK at another woman or admire another body part BUT damnit you dont do this while with your mate. Its respectful.

Answer 2

As I guy, I know that you can't help but notice other women. However, you should respect your wife enough to quickly avert your attention away from other women. You should never take time to stare and gaze at other women while you are with your wife. When you see a woman who catches your attention you should immediately focus some where else, preferably on your wife.

Answer 3

My husband and I went out last weekend. We were going to a swingers club later in the night. Still, we were at a bar and he was ga-gaing over these women. I will tell you the same thing I told him...

When you go out with a woman you love, you need to make sure that she is the only one in the room in your eyes. Don't make a jackass out of her in public with your roaming eye and don't make her feel as if she is not enough for you. There is a place and time for everything and if you can't control yourself during those times, then I might suddenly find a lack of control myself and talk to that cute guy over there when I go to the restroom because I sure have been looking at him and he's got a real nice smile.

Answer 4

Well????????????

Are you starring?

What I do when I see my husband is looking (cause he TRIES to hide it) , is I let him know that it's okay. I make a comment on what I think is pretty about what he's looking at or make some sort of joke.

It usually works and he relaxes. He's not doing anything wrong, but I also want him to consider my feelings.

How do you react whe she is looking at another man? How do you "really" feel? She's feeling the same when you look at other women.

Be sure to make her & only her feel like you love her only. If she is the insecure type, she, well you both need to work on that together.

Answer 5

I don't think it's wrong to admire another person, but there is a fine line between admiration and lust. If your wife feels uncomfortable, don't do it, have respect for her and her feelings, after all she is the woman you love, and married!

Answer 6

Men do this kind of thing. I have come to realise it is a fact of life. I would not say it is wrong, but put yourself in her position. How would you feel if you caught her checking out some other fella's crotch area. Women do actually do this, it's just that we are better than men at disguising these things.

Answer 7

Ah, your problem lies in the difference between 'looking' and 'gazing' at these ladies. I tell my man "Honey, as long as you stick to your diet, you go right ahead and take a look at the rest of the menu. But if you start drooling over that menu, you're in big trouble."

Answer 8

Your damn straight its wrong! How would you feel if you wife or girl was checking out another guy in front of your face? You can at least have enough respect to not do it while she's around at all. It'll make her feel as if she's not good enough for you.

Answer 9

I think that is the most disrespectful thing a guy can do. I know that when I'm at the store or something and there's a guy checking me out and he's with his woman, I think that sucks. Not cool at all.

Answer 10

No its not wrong but why must it be done when your with your wife. Cant you save that for when she is not around. I find it extremely disrespectful. Sometimes it angers me because I just dont understand why men cant control themselves. They act like if they let this one women pass without checking her out that they will die. Its very immature.