Well i have 2 best friends.And they comepletely ignore me.When i talk to them they act like i'm not around and that makes me kind of angry and stressed at the same time. Here what they do: They talk to each other and ignore me like i'm invisible. But when they talk to me they act like i'm visible. If i tell them i don't wanna be their friend then i won't have anyone else to talk to cuz i'm kinda shy and not good around people.SO WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????
2006-06-20 04:14:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These girls are definitely not your best friends. They are downright rude. I had a guy friend who did the same thing to me. One day it hit me, he is an *** hole, and doesn't deserve my time. You deserve so much better than them.
I know it can look bleak now, but move on. Join a club, help out at a local charity, join a church. People will go out of their way to meet you there and before you know it, you will have lots of friends.
2006-06-20 04:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by cynicalcall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U say them ur best friends then ask whats the problem with them? u have self-respect. noone can talk when they want n vice versa. If they have no genuine problem with u...then leave themmm...please....n explore urself by talking to others. what shy?? u r just going to have a friend and relaible frd ...where comes shyness in that??? u gotta be strong n move on...dont stick to one person...life is big and beautiful.many ppl are there to value u.
But first i recommend to find out the reason of why they r doing like this? if u feel they r doing that intentionally with just no reason then pls find out some other trustable frds. Stick to ur self respect n tell them with hard statement that what they r doing is not frdship.
2006-06-20 04:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by enlighten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have them as friends if they ignore you. However, it may just seem that way because you are shy. I'm the same way, shy. How often do you join in the conversation with them? They're probably not ignoring you, just not sure what to say since you aren't talking.
2006-06-20 04:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too mindful of yourself!!! stay calm. if you call them your best friends, then don't think that way on them! stop telling yourself that they are your best friends if you don't trust them. that's the basic rule.
i can feel you're a little bit insecure about yourself. do what you want and don't do anything just to impress other people. do it because you want to. that would give you a good start in your personality development.
with regards to your "friends", if you think they are jckasses, dump them and try to look some other within your league.
2006-06-20 04:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've had "friends" like this before. And trust me they are not your friends. They could even be jelous of you. I don't even have any friends. This being one of the reasons why. It's just something I cope with.
2006-06-20 04:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋