Maybe it's just me and being used to the long relatonship I was in, I could ask for a BJ and simply get it. I thought it would be same after the date on Saturday especially after we had drinks and we were going to bed after kissing and playing. Ladies: How would have you reacted, was I wrong to ask. What would have you done?
2006-06-20 04:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it was wrong to ask her..u should let her decide if she wanted to give u a warm bj
2006-06-20 09:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by momofthesouth2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it would depend up on the two individuals involved in the relationship. Some girls/woman are hungry for the chance and just have that need or desire. Other girls/women take it as a step in a serioius relationship.
For instance - my best friend is addicted to giving BJ to her ex-b/f and now to the men she is dating casually..... its just the way she is... she doesnt sleep with the men, she just gives them a BJ.
On the other hand, there is me and others like me. I was in a relationship with the same person for almost 6 years.... and when I finally gave him one we were well into the first year. Now that we have split I was trying to get back into the dating scene - but I just cant bring myself to let someone touch me or me touch them without knowing where it MIGHT lead to in the end. If I have a feeling it is nothing but a roll in the hay - then it just wont progress.... no regrets on my part or his.
Good luck but I would really wait until you get to know the girl well before asking for such a thing.... not everyone treats the act so casually.
2006-06-20 04:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bugs_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...........what big balls you have to ask a girl that on a first date. You really shouldn't have done that. Oral sex is very intimate and something you usually share with someone you love. I guess there are exceptions to the rule though. There are some girls who might do that with just anyone. I think that most girls won't though. Chances are she thinks your a total loser and won't go on a second date with you. Maybe you learned something from this. Usually the girl will decide when she is ready to do that to a guy. Don't make her feel she has to or she won't want to.
2006-06-20 05:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, hun!! As much as I enjoy giving them....
You cant just come out & ask a woman for one...thats just tacky!!
Cmon now...you know better then that!!!
Granted, there are certain women you could ask right off the bat, but not any woman of substance!!! :)
2006-06-21 08:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by mikkib08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but that is something that people just dont randomly do! Give it some time just chill and relax if a female is feeling u like that then they will do it on their own!
2006-06-20 04:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't like the answers you were getting in the Singles and Dating section? Well, you're still a pathetic looser here.
2006-06-20 04:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is alot to ask for on a first date. I wouldnt have asked that... and if I were her I would have called you a couple of things and left.
2006-06-20 04:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt gve a bj ever ne way
2006-06-20 04:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by ctwcsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a very selfish and inappropriate thing to do.
2006-06-20 04:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you never said if you got it or not! if i was her, i wouldn't be seeing you again!
2006-06-20 04:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by snicker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋