we married 2yrs ago and we really don't understand each other and he always wants me to do what's best for him,to make matters worse i moved from my country to join him in belgium.but i can't find a job and we having all those financial probs,he does not want to leave this place becoz of his mom.am getting fade up i want my freedom pls help.
2006-06-20 04:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't have any children, it is easy. Pack your bags and go back home. Let the child be with his mother.
Be brave and go! Good luck!
2006-06-20 04:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by anapiubella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt listen 2 those first 2, it sounds like this man is very selfishn is makin you unhappy. the only thing you can do is go home pack your things n move bac 2 your country. before you do it fone a close friend or relative let them kno ur dilemma n ask if they cud help you find some where 2 stay. the sooner you do this the better it b 4 you. dnt live ur life in a missery you shud b happy, let that asshole b unhapppy coz it sounds like he deserves it. i hope it al goes well 4 ya
2006-06-20 11:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you already had an answer beneath your heart, why don't you pluck your courage to move on your life while you are still young, energetic and alive. If you had children and you do love your husband very much, I suggest you swollow your anger & impatience while trying to figure new method of communicative.
2006-06-20 11:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are fed up tell him. He needs to listen to you and you need to given in a little. When life gives you lemons make lemonade. If that don't work, it's possible you need time apart to realise your dream not his. Just don't leave him just yet... unless you want to see yourself as a quitter.
2006-06-20 11:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by enishalagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to love your husband where he is at and seek counseling and help. A marriage counselor can tell him how you feel and you can understand him better through the conselor too. I dont feel you should end this marriage i feel you should work at and on it.
2006-06-20 13:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married a Belgian? Good luck.
2006-06-20 11:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack yuor bags leave him and get your self home its not right for him to treat you like this when your in a country that your not familiar with. good luck
2006-06-20 14:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by hunniewilko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back home.
2006-06-20 11:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋