I do beleive in God. But I am struggling with one thing. If I were to divorce due to emotional and verbal abuse and lets say remarry the man that I would remarry would be committing adultry. IS there anything that say otherwise or is there any other answers to this. I belive deep down in my heart I have found my soul mate who can love me like there is no tomorrow. The problem is he said that he would be commiting adultry if he were to marry me and I am trying to find if there even is anything that says that he would be forgiven.
2006-06-20 03:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl, if you say you believe in God, you might know by now that God wants us to respect anothers, so we can be respected, if he dont respect you, then he dont decerve respect... you also should know that all He wants is for his people to be happy with who they are, tell me, how are you gonna be happy with yourself if he treats you like s#$%... He knows what everybody is going through, and He understands... you keep up with ypur life, and do what you know is best for you... and good luck
God Bless You
2006-06-20 04:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by my_sweet_love <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If God were truly in our physical world, I doubt he would give a rat's crapper what happens in our so called married world department. Too many other things of greater importance. Like maybe turning the Summer's temperature down a notch or two. But otherwise I imagine he would just want you to be happy. The rest are decisions you make on your own and be prepared for consenquence, if any. If God brought young Paris and Helen together, and in fact, the ancient Greek ones did, then they were to find eachother through no coincidence at all. True love. Souls meant to be together forever..... But it created a war massive enough to write about for centuries forward. And that's always something to think about.
I hope this answer just changed a life. Peace.
2006-06-21 04:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. In the eyes of God you would not be divorced from your ex as the only scriptural reason for a divorce is adultery. If your ex husband has slept with another women since you split up then you are free as he has committed adultery and that is a scriptural reason for you to divorce and be free in God's eyes. If you have slept with another man since you split with your ex then you have committed adultery, this is a sin which you would have to pray for forgiveness of but it would mean that your marriage bonds are now broken and you would not be in an adulterous relationship with your new man. I hope that makes sense.
2006-06-20 11:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he isn't truly your soul mate coz if he does, he will definately not hurting you by doing something sin and shameless. I'm sympathy you for knewing such persons but somehow, I'm telling you facts that he doesn't deserve the best from you. Such committing adultry is unpardonable and why are you blindly chosing such irresponsible man?
His behaviour is childish and i were you, I would throw him out from my life. Move on your life with full meaningful. GOD Bless you..
2006-06-20 11:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not commiting adultery. Someone is trying to trick you into thinking this.
You should have no problems since you would be getting married to a single person like you are.
2006-06-20 14:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would be be comitting adultery if he were to marry you? What faith are you? Also talk to your pastor and see what they have to say to you about this. They should have some wise counsel and adivce for you about this situation. I want to know how he would be comitting adultery if he marries you. I dont understand this.
2006-06-20 12:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i know someone who divorced from the church (it was granted by the bishop of LA) because she was being abused and was stabbed..it took 5 years but it happened...she remarried again in church...so just ask your priest in your parish good luck
2006-06-20 11:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by mz.Tiza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and say hello to reality. You are mental. He will cheat on you. Find a hobby.
2006-06-20 11:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by yosoyfantastico 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋