We have 2 kids together. I love him very much and I don't plan to have an affair. I just think flirting can be fun. These guys would be neighbors or co-workers, so they know I am in a life-long relationship.
2006-06-20 03:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by lil_mama30009 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What a bunch of copout answers.
Sheesh, it is really possible, people, to be married and still enjoy life and the company of others.
There is no switch on the left hand that turns off our ability to be attracted and our desire to be attractive. "Put the ring on and twist it to the left, now that should keep his eyes forward"
Flirting is indeed a natural thing. How we flirt is cultural and that culture helps define what is acceptable and what crosses the line.
When I was young I thought flirting involved pinching a lady friend on the ash. One hard slap to the face taught me otherwise!
However, friendly bantering and sharing of a slightly off-color joke are more in line with what our culture deems appropriate. Some circles of friends may involve and accept sexual innuendo, gentle hugs and perhaps quick pecks on the cheek.
The decision is yours, many couples openly flirt in front of each other. (My wife and I for instance), while others are insanely insecure and jealous, therefore, whooops, no fun there.
"Put yourself in the your partner's shoes", "How would you feel, if he did it to you", are the copiest outest of all answers on Y! Answers. Often times (certainly in my case), the person asking the question is fine with idea of the partner taking part in similar activities. Hell, at least I'd know she's breathing and still warm-blooded!!
Need someone to flirt with, Asker, just drop me an email.
Thanks darlin,
Scott
2006-06-20 03:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by scott_v1963 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is OK to flirt as long as it is done in a respectful way. Flirting adds spice to the romance. As long as your partner is secure enough to know you only want them there is no harm unless you act upon it.
I flirt when my partner is present and my partner takes it as a compliment and when we go dancing my life partner loves to see me dance with other people. But then again.
I am the type that loves to put spice in my relationship. I do things like change the color of my hair. buy wigs and sexy outfits and even leave my partner notes saying I will be out of town for a few days and show up looking like a totally different person with a fake name. We have been together a long time and the sex is slamming!
2006-06-20 03:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lezzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my husband and I have been together 7 years and we both like to make an effort for eachother and keep the romance. I don't know if it's considered flirting though! I will put my favourite perfume and swish my hair near him (he loves my hair) and I think my husband looks so sexy when he wears these gorgeous clothes and leather jacke. When we are on the bus we will swilr our fingers round the other's palm - it's our secret gesture that means at this moment even tough we are in a public place we are saying I wish I could be in a deep embrace right now.
2016-05-20 04:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is a natural part of human behavior. If you want to flirt then flirt. If you partner is secure in the relationship and knows that you would never stray then go for it. Just do not cross the line, no touching and no exchanging phone numbers. Have you tried asking your partner if it upsets him?? If it does then don't flirt. What means more flirting or a messy custody battle?? Good Luck!
2006-06-20 03:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by lighthouse_lover92 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, we old gals have learned it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you come home to Papa when you're ready for supper. Flirting (light flirting) sort of empowers a woman and makes her feel sure of her attraction to other men. Just bring home your need for attention to your own man. And don't go too far with the flirting. You might run into the wrong man!
2006-06-20 03:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wanna risk your relationship? Would you like it if your partner goes around flirting with the neighbors &/or co-workers?
2006-06-20 03:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Chino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Flirting is a step in the direction of a permanent relationship, and if you don't intend that, then you'd be deceiving the person you're flirting with, making it look like maybe just maybe your present relationship isn't as permanent as it might have seemed up until now. (And you'd be amazed how hormones can screw up someone's head as far as the proper interpretation of someone's behavior is concerned). And yes, you do have it exactly right - the thing to do is stay faithful to your spouse...
2006-06-20 03:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no u have 2 children with your partner if u love him that much why flirt if u want to flirt how can u say u love him very much
2006-06-20 03:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your partner doesnt have a problem with it, then its ok. your right flirting can be fun, but you have to be careful that you dont send out the wrong message to the person you are flirting with.
2006-06-20 03:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is OK to flirt,especially in front of your partner. That could make him/her jealous and give them low self esteem,as if they are not good enough for you.
How would you feel if he/she flirted w/ everyone under the sun in front of you?I don't think you would care for it if the shoe was on the other foot hon.
2006-06-20 03:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by sandiegogal2002@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋