Everyone says move on, everyone says it's not your fault, he is just unhappy and can't be with you anymore....it's all really hard to listen to and hard to live with. What book can help me get my head out of the clouds - this is a very painful time - is there one book that comes highly recommended?
2006-06-20 03:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by BabsinPA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try some of Melodie Beattie's books. I found them to be indispensable. I also found out why Iwas attracted to men like this and how to listen to my inner voice. Her book "The Language of letting Go" is a good self help book.
2006-06-20 03:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by amaridy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Books? I don't know of any, but you're better off talking to someone...even complete strangers on the internet that have been through this. Talk about it, get it out in the open and that will help you move on.
Time heals. I'm sure that's hard to understand right now, but it truly does. I've been there and know it to be true.
2006-06-20 03:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about a book just buy the whole series of sex and the city.change your attitude to that of sarah jessica parker.keep moving and dont care about whether you will multiply or not.
that was the only shot i could give to lighten the immense pain that you are going through.what i really mean is that start your life all over again and find a better guy.okay.and tell me when you do.
becos your mr right will make you forgive and forget everything.
2006-06-20 03:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the libary and get any self help books for people with depression, they might work for u at this time. if you live in the uk watch eastenders that makes everyone feel there life is so much better. hope that put a smile on your face good luck chickxxx
2006-06-20 03:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A book may work for one person, but not for another. I think the thing to do is just learn to accept what has happened, awful as it may be, and be true to yourself. Yes, it sucks that he wants out, but that is not the end of the world for you. Your life still continues, so work through the pain, awful as it is, and keep going.
2006-06-20 03:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bridges of Madison County. Consider yourself lucky that he's doing you such a big favor. Why would you want someone who doesn't want you?? Say, "OK, you go your way and I'll go mine", make sure you get your finances in order and don't cave in when it comes to $$ and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. He's "unhappy" because he's doing something on the side he won't own up to. Don't be fooled.
2006-06-20 03:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Six Pillars of Self Esteem, by Nathaniel Branden
will help with many of your issues.
I wish someone told me about this book during my hardest times.
2006-06-20 03:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Real Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard to listen to your friends, but honey a book couldn't tell you anything new. It just takes time. I have been there, it is very hurtful and hard to deal with, but you will survive this.
2006-06-20 03:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling and get out and do stuff. I ran and road my bike I got in pretty good shape, It just takes time.
2006-06-20 03:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If Life Were Easy It Wouldn't Be Hard", by Sheri Dew.
2006-06-20 03:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋