i got in this BIG fight with my best friend and she is online (like aim) and i really don't want too talk too her but my other best friend told me that i sould talk too her. and allie(the best friend i got in a big fight) wants too talk too me! what should i do?
2006-06-20 03:06:46 · 25 answers · asked by tigger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends on what the arguement is over If she hurt your feelings and made fun of you then she really cant be considered a best friend.. because those who are truely your friends Dont do that. Sometimes It helps to listen to what she has to say and then decide if you really want to end the friendship. Friendships have their ups n downs your not always gonna get along. Thats why sometimes being a best friend is to offer forgiveness when its needed.
2006-06-20 03:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by trudie_barraza 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if u dont know what best friend means then lemme tell you. best friends are those wid whom you fight, love, quarrel, argue, confess, share, seek advise, express and play pranks. even if u dont want to talk to ur friend but still from heart u wanna speak and clear off all illusions. 'coz u r connected wid each other thru heart. and it really doesn't matter what size ur fight is , u will reunite the very next moment. where there is love there is fight, if there is no love then there is no fight 'coz u just ignore'em.
:) take care
2006-06-20 10:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by vjdi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her bff then you should talk to her to make up. A real friend calls that night when they have a fight. If she wants to talk to you, then you need to talk to her, to get things right. You cant be mad at her forever. Maybe you will make up and things will be cool from now on.
2006-06-20 10:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, you guys will have all kinds of fights in your life but good friends are hard to come by!
2006-06-20 10:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jaylyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a big problem:) Go and talk to her and sort out the matter. Some friends are precious so don't lose them
2006-06-20 10:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by Aahaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort it out as you will be best friends again very soon. Dont put off talking to her. Obviously she wants to talk to you and sort things out.
2006-06-20 10:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, i have those same problems with my friend all of the time, u should just talk 2 her and try 2 make up, it works all of the time 4 me, so hopefully it will 4 u. good luck :)
2006-06-21 11:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person whom you know his/her name, is just an acquaintance. it would take lots of time, events, situations and maybe even years before you can call that person "your friend".
now you have a best friend with you... it's better to loose an aquaintance than a friend... moreover, a best friend!
why take the risk of loosing one good person with a few imperfections? it's not easy to find a "real" friend nowadays!
TALK AND PATCH THINGS UP!!!
2006-06-20 10:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are still upset over the fight and should not talk to one another until you (and her) have cooled off to avoid any further damage to your friendship.
2006-06-20 10:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by d-lite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk out the problem if you both care about your friendship things should work it self out . Communication is the best thing never let things left unsaid.
2006-06-20 10:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋