He is 8 years younger and is still with the girl, he still spends a lot of time with me and we get on great with each other, he is always looking out for me. He pleases me in every way
2006-06-20 03:00:40 · 20 answers · asked by maria f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him well alone sweetheart, he is cheating on his girlfriend with you. You and your babies dont need that sort of hassle in your life........ My mum always used to say "if it's meant for you it wont pass by you". Let him sort his life out if it's meant to be he will come back to you without the baggage though. good luck beauty !
2006-06-20 03:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by mams brown eyed gel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think about why did you get together in the first place. This situation doesn't lead to anything real for you, according to my own and other people I know experience. Maybe you should tell him how you feel and tell him that you wouldn't go on like that anymore. Make him feel how it is to be without you so we might hope that he will realize how important you are for him. In both cases, you will win. If he chooses you great! If he doesn't, then he wasn't worth of trying (no matter what you share with him). In that case, I'm sure you could find somebody else who would be able to please you in every possible way, plus to choose you without hesitation.
2006-06-20 03:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is seeing someone else id suggest that you move on, thats already a bad sign that he knows how to be deceptive. I know it may seem hard at times to find someone specially being a single parent but I would look for someone else because after the end of the day he is still seeing someone else. Be strong and be patient youll find mr right
2006-06-20 03:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you're looking for, if it's just some fun to remind yourself you're a woman and not just a mum, then fine, how he deals with his girlfriend is his business. But if you're hoping it will lead to something more or getting emotionally attached, I'd tread very carefully if I were you, you may well get burned. And (as a single mum myself) remember that a lot of guys who are players like having a single mum 'girlfriend' - because you're stuck at home with a kid mostly, it's very convenient for them, they can drop in when they like and assume you're immensely grateful for their company - you're basically controlled without them having to control you, so you're easy meat. And of course they're going to be good to you, why lose a good thing?
2006-06-20 03:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he's not yours is he - he's a rat cos he's cheating on his girlfriend with you. He can't be trusted and put yourself in the other girls shoes how would you like it if it happened to you - you wouldn't - find a man who isn't already attached that way you won't be hurting anyone. I agree once a cheat always a cheat - he's using you for one thing - ditch him now! Good luck.
2006-06-20 03:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by missieclass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had a great dating experience with a younger guy, then it all went bad when we married. consider the maturity difference before getting serious, especially since you have children. good luck
2006-06-20 03:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple.....only date single men!
Don't think that just because you have a child single men won't date you, cos that nonsense.
Get out now....run....run like the wind!
2006-06-20 03:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Zane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he please you in every way if he's cheating on his girlfriend with you?
Do you want your child to grow up thinking cheating is ok?
He is cheating on her and even if you two got together he will cheat on you too
2006-06-20 03:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He possibly wants to have her as his girlfriend and you only as a friend. Or maybe he is a two timer! Don't wait around for him. . .move on!
2006-06-20 03:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by fannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting the best of both worlds,let him stay with his girlfriend.
2006-06-20 03:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋