last nite my husband told me i don't want to sleep w/u.makes me sick..wont even touchme certain times on the wkend gos out for a half 40 min. almost the same times i reaLLy noticed this more last 3 wks the bills are getting higher im not help people say not hiring now want to work in a hospital we meet ea. other at the hospital had sex in rooms great then anyways i love my husband he is 49 again married 23 yrs.i keep myself up.people say i look like i am early 30's but i tried too talk he talked over me.he set down the rules, me not working 7 mo. i really want u to leave he said your not going to change iam going to start today for me w/eyes wide open.and if i need to ch# things out its for me to feel secure again weither he likes it or not he is already pulled away.sex is good one wk.and then i say something he does not like won't talk,this pain......hurts do i go on and try smiling find job act like what..... help....lost
2006-06-20 02:56:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That doesn't make very much sense. You need to type out whole sentences and not change trains of thought in mid sentence.
2006-06-20 03:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I'm gathering that you basically can't decide to stay or leave because he witholds affection from you when he's angry?? Look, you can get sex just about anywhere and that's no reason to stay with a crappy husband. Usually when someone is blaming you for everything, they are trying to divert the attention from themselves because THEY are guilty. I don't think your situation is going to get better, honey. Think about spending another 23 years with this egotistical man...does that sound good?? Get a new job; don't tell him what you do with your time or money and when you are financially secure, leave his butt! Do it before it's too late!
2006-06-20 10:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are well maintained, if your husband is unhappy - your good looks are not going to save the marriage. Find out what's going on with him - really listen. If it can be fixed, do what it takes. If he's moved on, let him go.
2006-06-20 10:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he cheating on you? Why do you make him sick? Ask him why he feels this way. See what he says. You both may need counseling and help too.
2006-06-20 12:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't figure out your question. What are you trying to ask?
2006-06-20 10:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the.....?
2006-06-20 12:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋