Help me on relationship problems!!?

Question

Hi! I'm a very lonely girl.Get low grades,no friends,bullied,the guy i like is preventing me....
What should I do????????

Answer 1

Yes highschool or middle school can be very lonely and suck most or all of the time, but trust me once you get out of highschool and figure out what it is you really want to do in life besides get into a relationship, highschool will be a small blur for you.

The only thing that got me anywhere was my grades. Take all that energy and frustration and put that into your studies because your education is so valuable right now. When I was in a relationship I found that there were too many problems that I couldn't focus on school anymore so I decided to remain single again.

People in school are only concerned about what is popular and sometimes fail to see what is the most important thing right in front of them and that is educating themselves.

After highschool most of the popular kids did nothing with their lives and have 5 kids, don't be one of those people make something of youself and do it for yourself. I also noticed that the unpopular people were also the coolest people outside of highschool.

I had one friend and was bullied too, because I was new to the school but I kept up my studies and now I am living in Hawaii with my Medical degree working at a local hospital. I come in here to answer questions sometimes to think of other things besides my patients.

Work hard for your future and don't let anyone hold you down. Work hard for yourself! Good luck in all the things you have yet to do!

Answer 2

Start concentrating on the things that you're good at, or that you can change. For example, talk to your teachers about your grades, attend tutoring, etc. Make sure you do your homework and study. Your grades are something that you can have control over.

Think about whether you're overlooking opportunities for friends. Perhaps there is someone who has been friendly towards you, but isn't necessarily someone you would normally think of for friendship. Maybe they're lonely, too. Try to reach out to someone else who is sitting by themself. Read books on how to make friends (I'd recommend not carrying them to school, as people will probably just make fun of you, but it's still a good idea).

Find an adult (parent, teacher, pastor) who you can trust and talk to them about your problems. If you start attending a church, the youth pastor is usually pretty good at helping with problems like this. It's okay to attend a church to have a safe place to meet people, and they usually have lots of activities scheduled for young people.

Don't worry about guys at this point in time. You need to worry about becoming the person you need to be first before you can even think about including anyone else in your life.

Hang in there. Life does get better. People who have a hard time in their teens often find adult life much easier and more rewarding. Just work on being the best person you can be.

Answer 3

You have to first believe in yourself and all the things you can do. Open up, and start loving yourself because before anyone an love you, you have to love yourself.

Be yourself, and don't imitate anyone. Don't try to be like the most popular girl in school. Because if she has any personality flaws, you will have them to because you are imitating her.

When you have self confidence, you will see how people are gonna come to you, not only the boy you like but may be even new friends, because they are gonna feel secure being around you.

Don't ever change radically just to impress someone. If someone likes you, they are gonna like because of the way you are, not the way you pretend you are.

Answer 4

Dear questioner,

You have already gone through a very difficult but important way:you realize that you have some problems. Maybe you could try to find out why do you feel the way you do??? In case if you discover all "stimulators" for that, then we can easily discuss them. Go search yourself and remember you are very cool, you admitted having problems, most people are afraid of that, Good to you :).

Answer 5

first calm down. I'm sure their is someone in your community that wants to be your friend! Just get out their be confident and nice and you will make some friends go to the park, mall, places where people your age hang. If the guy you like is being a jerk forget his a$$.

Answer 6

You have to like you, before others will.

What is the one thing you do best, we all have one???

Find it, you'll be surprised at how doing something you're good at and that you like to do will help you feel better about yourself.

Outside looks are skin deep and will one day fade, inside looks when polished shine forever.

When you find confidence in yourself and the courage to show the world the real you, people will see and they'll come to you.

Answer 7

Personally I think you should seek counceling. It will help..trust me. You have some hidden issues you may not know about that need to come out. This guy is a crutch and you are afraid of losing him because you would be more lonley. This is the case but only tempoary. Please talk to some professional.

Answer 8

the u like is preventing u from having friends and making u get bullied and get low grades, so why the hell do you like him when he's ruineing ur life

Answer 9

Socialize more, be friendly and try to pull you your grades while you still have a chance. There's a guy out there just waiting too want you!

Answer 10

beat the crap out of the bully