First of all i want to say i have nothing against gay people. In fact i have a few friends who are gay. But what do you do when they intrude your personal space?
For example, getting home on the train, i was standing beside the door when this guy keeps brushing up against me. I pretend to close my eyes and sleep and the next thing i know, he had enclosed me in and he was giving me THAT look. I quickly got off the train and he did the same thing. I didn't pause to see if he stalk me or not, i quickly walk into the nearest shopping mall and hide inside the library.
I am starting to get creeped out and violated, because this is not the first time it happened on the train. It happened a few times already, by different guys. It feels like i am being targeted or something and i feel very frightened about it. Can anyone help me? I don't even dare to glare at them for fear it will send the wrong signal. Please help.
2006-06-20 02:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by Make a wish 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Try to sit in populated areas of the train. Stop making eye contact or he will think you're interested. Don't tap your foot, either. Some guys have systems they look for between each other. Just avoid them. This is perhaps the only way for you guys to feel how women feel when men get too close or make them uncomfortable. If he confronts you just tell him he must have you confused with someone else.
2006-06-20 02:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In response to the last answer above that stated that gay guys are promiscuous; correction: a lot of GUYS are promiscuous, gay or straight. I agree, this is how women feel all the time.
2006-06-20 17:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by pancho p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me several times. I just tell them in an assertive voice that I am not gay and usually they leave. Only one time did I have to threaten one.
2006-06-20 09:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL maybe he wasnt gay and just drunk, i dont know know a gay man who would even do someting like that and you should have a set on you right?? so step up to the plate and say hey look its not like that!!
2006-06-20 09:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by starjessiegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mace and or a stun gun. Perverts come in all sexual orientations and it's very unfortunate you had those experiences. They can be arrested for simple assualt if you want to go that route.
2006-06-20 09:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAME THING happened to me once when i was riding the MRT from work. i ignored the guy. got off the train and never looked back.
2006-06-20 09:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by spongebob30x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of gay guys are promiscuious, just let them know you don't appreciate them glaring at you and touching you, get mad if you have to, they'll get the point
2006-06-20 11:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by AFwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, bend over, apply KY Jelly and spread 'em
2006-06-20 10:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Hung L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple play a game of kill a queer.
2006-06-20 09:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by whitetrashwithmoney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** it happen to me gay men like streat men and we get pussy
and they like butty
naste jssut tell him i did
2006-06-20 09:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by butterfingers72000@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋