I find my wife never asking me to have sex or play like adults....she's more into cleaning and cooking. There is times I think to find another woman and have fun before life runs away....Why is always me dragging her or taking initiation for sex all the time. she never asked first to make love.....is this valid for all women in general?....
2006-06-20 01:58:36 · 15 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because men want to have sex in every second...
In my relationship we both love sex or also making love. We both want to have sex in the same moment, no one of us ask about this
2006-06-20 02:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you necessarily. But you may be in an abusive relationship. When either one of the partners cannot accept that the other does not want sex right now, there is a potential problem. Explain to her (pbuh) that, like her, you are a human being and not a robot. If she continues to berate you, seek relationship counselling or a replacement. Sometimes a man just wants to rebuild a carburettor.
2016-03-26 22:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not enjoying sex with you.
Do you know what turns her on? I mean everything that turns her on?
If you have kissed her head to toe with intermediate stops with your mouth and tongue, you are missing your wifes finest moments.
She should have multiple orgasms before you have yours.
I am serious about all of this. I'm not a kid. It has taken me years to learn what little men really know about women.
They are complicated and simple......like men. Women have a desire to give more than they get, and men get more than they give. Get the picture? Give her more variety in the bedroom, or move it to the kitchen, or in front of the fireplace.
Maybe she would like to see some erotic movies.
Try it all, what have you got to lost that ins't lost already?
2006-06-20 02:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in general women are selfish in this way
men have gotten the message from them, the modern guy will usually help with housework, kids, do all the lawn care and buy her unique presents and gifts for the proper occasion and take his wife on dates
but sex to a woman, she still thinks its some reward for you doing something good
if i were you, i'd try to have a talk with her and explain to her that sex IS intimacy for you and that if you are taking care of her emotional and intimate needs, then she needs to do her part too
2006-06-20 02:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by whoisgod71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, men ask because apparently you aren't allowed to just take it. Its considered against the law and all that.
P.S. Chances are that your wife has someone else on the side.
2006-06-20 02:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to talk to your wife about his. Tell her how you feel. Maybe she has some physical issues. It could be a million things. If it can't be resolved, got for it.
2006-06-20 02:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by HoneyBee24-7-365 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you watch a lot of tv, only in tv women are showed with a big desire to ****...-- maybe she is not lucky the way you act when you have sex, ask her for a change what she would like you to do for her to make her lucky,
go for it
2006-06-20 02:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by franky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My scenario is the same! Looks like one needs to beg for it!
awkward, at times!am curious to know what others say?
2006-06-20 02:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by jaygan1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women usually get fed up with sex after some time... might be also that ur wife doesnt enjoy her sexual life... be careful on this...
2006-06-20 02:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get naked in front of her that works,,,, thats what we do when we want each other just get naked ,, yesterday i got out of the shower and i saw my husband in the closet fixing a shelf (so sexy)so i just layed and spreaded my legs,, how could he say no
2006-06-20 02:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋