Becos when i'm avirgin we play the first sex without condom and it abit painful and the second with condom and it really really more painful than the frist whats happen so please i need a help for my question.
2006-06-20 01:28:57 · 21 answers · asked by popo l 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
use a condom EVERY TIME. You can still get pregnant even if he comes outside you, and you run the risk of contracting an std be careful. When you are a virgin the first times hurt, but after you get use to it it feels really good. Relax and make sure you are wet enough if that still doesn't help use a lubrication that won't damage the condom. Most condoms already come lubricated but sometimes more is good. A product I personally recommend is a KY lubricant. Good luck and be safe!!
2006-06-20 02:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by shasha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definately use a condom. I was shocked at how they dont really seem that annoying or thick. Definately get a lubricated condom and some ky just incase, get her nice and wet, and then try sex with just the condom if it is uncomfortable then put on some lube
2006-06-20 01:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication. Get some KY jelly or something equivalent.
Think of it like this: If you rub your hands together very hard when they are dry: it hurts.
When you rub your hands together very hard after you have used some lotion: it doesn't hurt.
It is because your partner wasn't wet enough. Nervous, jittery, bad day, hormones: a lot of different reasons for this. Get some lubricant especially created for condom usage, and go have some pleasurable fun.
2006-06-20 01:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by zencherry67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was painful because you were a virgin, the first time always hurts.
Use a condom!!!!!!!
They not only prevent unexpected pregnancies but sexually transmitted infections too.
Buy lubricated condoms or regular condoms and a tube of lube, less painful.
2006-06-20 01:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by liathano70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there wasn't enough lubrication in the process. Either you should try and get wetter or use something like KY jelly. Also always use condoms because disease are no joke and a kid is an even bigger deal.
2006-06-20 01:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by faithful4ever13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm. let's see.
1) you have sex w/ a condom & it's a little uncomfortable.
2) you have sex w/o a condom - it fees better but.... 9 months later you deliver something the size of a bowling ball through a key hole... .You make the choice.
2006-06-20 03:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use a condom... Pain cos u r a virgin..
It will b more painful without e condom if u were to get diseases frm him.. U'll neva know..
Safe sex Save lifes
2006-06-20 07:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by AngEl L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is not a lot of difference between with or without because the condoms are pretty thin so that means i doesn't make the penis wider or anything.
2006-06-20 02:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin the first few times always hurts a little.
2006-06-20 01:43:01 · answer #9 · answered by curstadevon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some condoms are lubricated...
also... the first couple of times are less comfortable.
If you two are exclusive... STDs are less of a concern...
however... Pregnancy is.
2006-06-20 01:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋